The Mattern Perspective

Elijah's New Skills

2012-02-09T22:53:00.001-05:00

Elijah can roll over! He is able to go from his stomach to his back. He only does this now and then as the mood to roll over doesn't strike him often. In this video, he does not roll over. He had accomplished the task three times previous and was working on a fourth when he discovered the carpet. If you watch closely you can see the moment when the carpet became far more interesting than rolling over. Enjoy.

In other news. Elijah can now eat his feet. This makes him the most flexible Mattern...by far.

Elijah's First Meal

2012-01-22T18:14:00.000-05:00

Elijah ate his first meal with solid food. The menu included rice cereal...that's it...4 teaspoons of rice cereal. He ate is all without much mess. He didn't seem to have any trouble with the idea of eating. A true Mattern.

My first bite

Yummy

Time with Grandma

This picture cracked me up.

Elijah at the Table

2012-01-20T20:07:00.003-05:00

Tonight Elijah ate with us at the dinner table for the first time. His grandma and grandpa Kregel brought his High Chair down today. Technically, Elijah did not "eat". Instead he observed our eating while munching happily on his toy elephant. Elephant is always on the menu for Elijah. Elijah completely enjoyed table time and we enjoyed having him at the table with us. Enjoy the pictures.

Elijah Enjoying His Book

The 20 Week Update

2012-01-18T01:00:00.000-05:00

The Elijah man continues to grow. We came home from the hospital at 7lbs 9oz and 21 inches. At his 4 month appointment he weighed 15lbs 13oz and was 26.5 inches. He is working on sitting up (with help) and is getting a lot more vocal. It is fun to get him laughing. He is reaching for toys and everything ends up in his mouth. He can hold his weight standing (for a bit with help balancing). He isn't happy if he can't see who is talking and he seems to really enjoy people. Right now he is in the 95th percentile for height and the 70th percentile for weight. Healthy and happy.

Birth 8lbs 3oz and 21 inches

4 Weeks

Sitting up with help

The doggy is to small so now we have the lion his uncle Bill gave him for Christmas to compare him with.

Elijah vs Claire

2012-01-14T23:06:00.002-05:00

This Christmas Elijah met his cousin Claire for the first time. I am sure they will never forget this important meeting. These pictures took place in the space of about 15 minutes. Both kids were in good moods and provided us all with much entertainment. We thought we should share. Enjoy

Face off

Under the Christmas Tree

2011-12-24T17:49:00.000-05:00

Elijah spent some time under the Christmas tree. We just had to do a photo shoot and he cooperated really well. Merry Christmas and enjoy.

The Christmas tree is so interesting

Merry Christmas all you happy people!

Fun at the Mattern House

2011-12-22T01:00:00.000-05:00

Emily and Elijah have matching Christmas sweaters. This was the outfits that they wore caroling with the church. Elijah got a little tired after the 4th of 7 stops, but was a very popular little person. After we got home he was in a much better mood. He had a lot of fun posing for the camera.

Big Smile

Big Wiggles

Elijah also has discovered textures. He has several different blankets all with different textures. He had some fun getting wrapped up in this homemade one (thank you Thelma!). Everything has to go in his mouth so here we have him tasting the blanket and the reaction.

This is Elijah playing with Hopscotch. Hopscotch was a gift from Mary (a member of the church) and Elijah completely enjoys playing with him. Each leg has something different to grab and there are all kinds of different textures. Elijah loves to look and and feel Hopscotch. He also tries to fit as much of Hopscotch in his mouth as possible. It is rather fun to watch. Playing with Hopscotch can last 30 minutes to an hour.

With his arm stuck

Noticing the camera after some play time.

Christmas Gifts of Furniture

2011-12-19T21:46:00.000-05:00

Christmas came a little early for the Mattern family. My little brother David brought down a few items for us a couple weeks ago. My parents have known of my desire for a hutch for some time. They had considered making us one and several plans were looked at. In the end, Dad found the top of the hutch at an Amish auction (It was made by Burkholder in Nappanee) for a very (very) cheap price. He had all the lumber in the barn and ready to go so he decided to pay a local Amish man build the base for him. This is the final result. Thank you mom and dad for your very generous gift. I imagine we will have this for a very long time.

Solid Cherry and very heavy. Thanks for bringing it down David

The other news is that Grandma Mattern has chosen to move into assisted living. Therefore, she had to downsize quite a bit. In the process there were several things that she offered the family. We took her up on a few of them. The most significant one was this antique table. I grew up eating a lot of meals on this table. It was something that they found at an auction a long time ago and refinished. I think my dad actually did the refinishing (long before I was born). The wood grain is a near perfect match for our floors, the table folds down to a very small size and grows large enough for 10 people if you need it, and it has a lot of family history. This is another piece we will probably have for a very (very) long time. Thank you Grandma for this very nice gift.

16 Weeks with Elijah

2011-12-16T00:43:00.002-05:00

Elijah is a lot more interactive. He is grabbing everything around him now. He isn't happy if he cannot see what is going on. If there are voices in the room he needs to find them and look at them. He recently discovered that he can make noise with his mouth at will. He used to only talk to us when he was really happy and we were interacting with him. Now he talks to himself. I think he likes the sound of his own voice. Takes after his Daddy.

Emily and I have slightly different ways of calming Elijah down. Every night Emily reads Elijah a story from his Bible storybook. She reads to him often. He seems to like it. The pictures are interesting. I like to walk around with him. We have a "walking around and looking at stuff" routine. It is fun to see what gets Elijah's attention. He got to touch the Christmas tree the other night. It was amazing.

Below are Elijah's 16 week pictures. At 12 weeks he didn't seem to even notice the dog. He was more interested in his parents. This time the doggy was very interesting. He wasn't very excited about the first picture, but once the dog was discovered it was play time. The final result was a lot of happy kid noise and cooing. Emily had a blast taking the pictures. I think we have 15.

Elijah compared to the doggy. Big kid.

Elijah discovering the doggy...play time

Soft doggy...very interesting

Tasty doggy

Excited!

Hiding from Mommy

Happy times with the doggy.

Elijah Before Christmas

2011-12-12T01:00:00.000-05:00

We continue to be amazed at how quickly Elijah is growing and learning. He keeps getting stronger and checking out new things. He loves textures now and will spend time just feeling things. He loves to talk to us when he is in a playful or good mood. Often when we are getting him ready for bed we will talk and play for quite awhile on the changing table. He is holding his head up more and more and is always looking around. He just needs to see everything there is to see. Elijah likes to cuddle up when he gets sleepy which makes Emily melt. He is just a lot of fun and a great kid. Enjoy the pictures.

Playing in his gym and holding his head up (does anybody else see red in his hair?)

He loves feeling all the different textures on his toy. This toy also seems to taste good.

He loves putting his hand on the back of his head

Just cute

Elijah's First Thanksgiving

2011-12-09T19:27:00.001-05:00

Elijah spent Thanksgiving with the Mattern family. This proved to be a very busy weekend. Great Grandma Mattern was packing, having an estate sale, and moving into Miller's Merry Mannor the following week. Spending time with Elijah was just the treat she needed. Plus we were able to get some things done for her. She is moved now and doing well.

We also were able to video chat with Aunty Beth, Uncle Ryan, and Cousin Claire. Great Grandma thought this was great. We are looking forward to spending time with them this Christmas. Good times.

Happy Time at Grandma and Grandpa's House

With Great Grandma

Meeting the Zelda Dog

Playing with Grandma

Chewing on Fingers

Video Chatting with Beth, Ryan, and Claire

The Growth of a Little Boy

2011-11-27T01:00:00.000-05:00

We thought it would be fun to take pictures every four weeks or so of Elijah with a toy. Here is the progression so far. Does he seem bigger? He is. The little man came home from the hospital at 7lbs 9oz. On October 31st he was 12lbs 15 oz. He has been gaining about a half a pound a week. At birth he was 21 inches long. On October 31st he was 24 1/4 inches long. At 12 weeks I am confident that he has gained 6lbs from his first day at home and has most likely grown 4 inches or so. That's a lot of growing!

We have completely loved watching Elijah develop. He spends most of his awake time smiling, making noises, and wiggling now. He can hold his head up fairly well and absolutely loves observing the world around him. He will track a conversation in a room by looking back and forth from one person to another based on who is speaking. If you smile at him, he will most likely smile right back. This week he just started grabbing things around him. It's a lot of fun.

Elijah at Birth

Elijah at 4 Weeks

Daddy playing with the sign. Fun kid

Mr. Elijah Goes to Michigan

2011-11-22T19:21:00.001-05:00

Last weekend Emily had a birthday...so we went to Michigan to celebrate. Naturally, this required Elijah to go along. He got to meet a whole bunch of fun people and play with his cousins again. A good time was had by all. Elijah managed to wear himself out and slept the entire drive home. Family is fun.

Can you spot anything odd about this picture?

Play Time

Reading a book

With Grandpa

I can grab things now

Playing with Lauren and Drew

With Uncle Bill

Playing with the cousins

With Lauren

With Katelyn

A new toy

With Aunt Kerry

With Aunt Mary

With Aunt Sue

With Drew

Elijah Update...with Pictures

2011-11-12T22:08:00.001-05:00

Elijah keeps growing and changing. At his last doctor's appointment (Halloween) he was 13lbs and 24 1/4 inches long. He did not like the shots they gave him. He was having a blast on the table (even though he occasionally startled himself while wiggling on the paper) when two nurses came in. He thought they were playing with his legs as his parents often do...instead they jammed two needles into him. Poor kid had a look of pain and betrayal on his face. He calmed down soon after though.

Elijah is smiling a lot. Most days are filled with looking around at stuff, smiling and playing, eating, getting his diaper changed (also play time in Elijah's mind), and sleeping. He will sleep 5+ hours at night now in his crib. He even put himself to sleep in his crib a couple times this week. We enjoyed that. He rides in the car well and is generally a lot of fun.

Play time with Mommy

Changing Table Fun

Halloween Outfit

Chewing on His Hand

Wishing one of those hand would get in his mouth

Fun with the play gym

Saturday Nap Time

Blue Eyes

Smile

Fun with Daddy and a Blanket

Sleepy Time

I got my book!

He's Growing

2011-10-22T11:09:00.004-05:00

Elijah is 8 weeks old now! He continues to do well. He is becoming more interactive and gives out precious smiles. He is sleeping longer at night, but it is inconsistent anywhere between 3 to 8 hours. The longer stretches are awesome when they happen and they happen more frequently. His 3 month size sleepers with feet are getting a little small on his long body--the ones without feet fit much better.

Compare these photos to the one at three weeks to see how much he has grown!

Meg is a friend I've known since 6th grade. She had a baby girl on Oct 14. We got to meet Stella at her house on Tuesday this week. Suddenly, Elijah looks huge!

Elijah Goes to Nappanee

2011-10-08T20:20:00.003-05:00

Last weekend we took a trip to Nappanee. Great Grandma Mattern was celebrating her 91st birthday. We thought that would be a good time for her to meet and hold her great-grandson. She also thought that would be a lovely idea. Elijah was a bundle of energy on her birthday, but fell asleep in great-grandma's arms the next day during a visit. This was a really good choice on Elijah's part. It was a great time to have all the Mattern generations together at the same time. We can't wait until Christmas time to add Beth, Ryan, and Claire to the mix.

We also were able to hook up with the Davis and Brown families. Kenna and Heidi are about 5 months older than Elijah. I think it will be fun having kids the same age.

Elijah is a good traveler. He slept a lot and was only fussy for about an hour at the end. He did manage to add about two hours to the drive each way. Little man's got to eat. Enjoy the pictures.

Grandma with Elijah...Her first time holding him.

Four Generations of Matterns...and one Zelda dog

Mattern Mothers and Elijah

Elijah hanging out with Kenna Davis and Heidi Brown (both 6 months old)

Elijah being fun.

Elijah's First Car

2011-10-04T21:18:00.003-05:00

Last weekend we learned that a small child can take up a lot of space. Our compact cars simply could not contain all that Elijah seems to require. So today I said goodbye to the best car I ever owned. My Honda Civic took me more than 60,000 miles in 3 years. It was perfect for that particular stage in my life. I really don't have any emotional attachment to a car...it is just a car, but this was a really good car. I am sure some high school kid or college student will enjoy it as much as I did.

A Great Car

We replaced our Civic with a Toyota Camry. In the short miles we have driven this new car we love it. It's quiet, comfortable, and technologically advanced. Elijah now has space for all that he requires and his parents fit into the car comfortably as well. We have a family car now. I hope I enjoy this car as much as I did my Civic.

Color: Cosmic Gray Mica

Elijah's Favorite Thing

2011-10-01T23:40:00.000-05:00

The bouncy seat is a life saver. There are few temper tantrums, fussy moments, or other traumatic baby issues that cannot be helped or solved with time in the bouncy seat. The position also seems to help keep the spit up issues more under control. Doesn't bouncing look fun?

Come and Compare...Baby Pictures

2011-09-24T01:00:00.000-05:00

There is always a debate when a child is born. Who does he look like? Elijah looks like us...but who does he take after more. This is not a competition (even though I would win if it was), but we thought it might be fun to compare baby pictures. So here are six (2 of Elijah, 2 of Emily, 2 of John (one at a year because I am cool like that)). Feel free to express you thoughts in the comments.

This is Elijah

This is Emily

This is John

Elijah again

Emily again

John at 1 year

Uncle David Comes to Visit

2011-09-22T20:05:00.003-05:00

My brother (along with my parents) were down to visit last weekend. Elijah seemed to hit it off with him...he slept while David held him. I assume that if Elijah sleeps while he is being held than he must like the person holding him. Anyway, this is a blog salute to uncky David.

Three Weeks

2011-09-17T15:33:00.006-05:00

Elijah turned 3 weeks old yesterday. Here he is pictured with one gift that arrived in the mail this week--a stuffed dog. I will try to take his picture with it regularly for comparison.
On Wednesday we went in for a weight check at the doctor. Elijah is 8 pounds 15 ounces. He is growing well!

Friday night visitors---David and Meg Brown (and soon to make appearance Stella). We joked about making wedding plans for Elijah and Stella. We enjoyed dinner out at El Reparo and then delicious cream puffs they brought from Cincinnati.

Another Week...More Pictures

2011-09-10T21:32:00.003-05:00

Week two with Elijah was relatively uneventful. He had a couple nights where he attempted to drive his parents nuts. Going to sleep during the day is easy...at night it's a whole new ballgame. Most of the time he sleeps pretty well. He slept through a trip to Target, a meal at Chili's, and game night at church on Wednesday. If we take him out of the house he go to move is to fall asleep. He does draw a crowd just about everywhere we have been.

Emily decided to take some photos today. Elijah was just waking up when she started.

We enjoy the yawns. It might be the most expressive thing Elijah does.

I am not sure what Elijah is doing in this picture, but I consider it my duty as a father to embarrass him. (disclaimer: Emily took the picture)

This is the little man awake. Eye contact is great. He responds to our voices and other sounds. He is awake for feedings (or semi-awake) and for about 4-5 hours during the rest of the day. We are all doing well and adjusting to our new life as a family. It's not easy, but it's very good.

Elijah meets his Kregel cousins

2011-09-05T13:16:00.004-05:00

Life in the land of Elijah is going well. He sleeps reasonably well. He isn't that fussy and often has awake time in his bassinet filled with little Elijah happy noises and lots of movement. He loves to move his arms around and doesn't like to be swaddled. Elijah is doing a good job eating and seems more content with his surroundings each day. It is a lot of fun learning his cues and engaging in some play that he likes (moving arms, feet, and tummy rubs). All in all, we are happy and totally enjoying our little boy.

Mommy is doing great.

All the Kregel grandkids

The Kersten Family

Emily completely enjoyed this visit

Jonathan, Katelyn, Lauren, and Drew each got to hold Elijah for awhile.

Elijah enjoyed being the center of attention

Elijah Dale Mattern is Born

2011-09-04T13:42:00.009-05:00

Elijah Dale Mattern was born on August 26, 2011 at 5:08 pm. He is 8lbs 3oz and 21 inches long. We are learning how to be a family. Elijah is a great baby and tends to sleep well (most of the time). Here are some pictures of his first 48 hours. Enjoy.

Elijah Dale is named after his grandpa Ronald Dale. Aren't they cute?

Elijah is the second grandchild for grandma and grandpa Mattern born in the last three months. I think this picture accurately describes their excitement.

The first time I held my son.

Emily is a great mommy.

Thanks to all for your prayers and support. We truly appreciate it.

Baby's Room

2011-08-23T19:17:00.003-05:00

I think we are ready for baby. We have a place for him to sleep and to change his diaper and we have drawers full of clean clothes. The crib we have is actually our third--our first two options did not work out. It was just 2 weekends ago when we got it put together. We decided it would be nice to keep the full size bed in the room and are pleased with the final room arrangement. So now we wait for our little boy to make his appearance in this world. :)

Final House Improvements

2011-08-20T20:57:00.010-05:00

Not that home improvements are ever COMPLETELY finished, but we have finished all the major projects that we would like. Our last big project was paint and carpet in the living room, hallway and master bedroom. The above photo was taken at the beginning of July before painting and carpet began. Initially, we were thinking a shade of yellow for the living room and hallway, but decided to go with 'Universal Khaki', like the kitchen and dining room that we like so much.

Here I am earlier this week with the wall paint and trim done--before the new carpet went in.
Here is the living room with paint done (and a new shade) but before the carpet.
A completed living room!!! We love it!
Our completed master bedroom. No more pink carpet!!!!!!!
We are so thankful baby decided to wait until after we got everything back in place. Now we just continue to wait for his arrival.

Third Trimester

2011-06-09T19:10:00.002-05:00

I have entered into my third trimester! These photos were taken last weekend--there is no hiding the baby bump anymore. :) I continue to feel well. There are the normal discomforts that come with pregnancy. I am still not used to the fact the I don't bend like I used to. I hope these 90+ degree days don't last all summer or I am going to spend a whole lot of time in air conditioning.

It's a Boy!

2011-06-02T19:36:00.005-05:00

April 18 we had our ultrasound and found out that we are having a boy! He was measuring about a week ahead of my due date. That isn't surprising, considering John and I are not small people. We were kind of expecting that it was a boy. All male Matterns in recent memory have first born sons--so we are following the family pattern. I also had a few women tell me they thought it was a boy because I am carrying low.

We are a bit slow in posting this news, but it was the week before Easter when we had the ultrasound--which is a bit busy at church. On top of that, it

was two weeks from John's graduation as well. Now for the month of May, I don't have much of an excuse. It is in no way a sign of lack of excitement.

My pregnancy continues to go well. I really can't complain. I am regularly feeling the little guy move around--which is fun. At my 25 week doctor appointment, I was measuring right on schedule (although I commonly hear that I don't look that big--probably thanks to my long torso). We are feeling blessed as the weeks move along.

This is a picture of me in April--just the beginning of the baby bump.

Emily = Pregnant!

2011-02-27T18:17:00.009-05:00

Yes. The Mattern family expects to grow by 1 on or around

September 1, 2011

We are very excited.

For all the parents at church who have told John "Wait until you have kids." The time has come.

We had our 12 week doctor visit last Monday and were able to hear the heartbeat (Just 1 heartbeat). Emily has been more tired than normal and just a little sick to her stomach occasionally. Not bad so far.

This is a major answer to prayer for us. We weren't always sure that we would be able to have kids. Our time of waiting has increased our joy.

We thank God for this blessing. We can't wait to be parents.

Greensburg Diversity

2011-02-17T14:45:00.004-05:00

The Census data for Decatur County is in. I thought this might give people a glimpse of where Emily and I live. I know when I read this article (printed below, link on title) I was struck by the startling lack of ethnic diversity around me. My hometown (Nappanee) is probably similar, but I have not lived there for 15 years. Purdue, Anderson, Columbus, and Springfield were filled with diversity. I valued getting to know people from other races and cultures. I still have this in some degree due to my Seminary work. I am curious how low diversity impacts culture. I found the whole thing interesting. Perhaps you will as well.

On another note. Thisis the an article I enjoyed about the Census in 2000. Check it out, you might enjoy it as well. (I still find it really funny.)

Census Numbers Reflect Increase In Population, Diversity In County

Elizabeth Bailey Greensburg Daily News

February 12, 2011 Sat Feb 12, 2011, 08:32 AM EST

Greensburg — The 2010 Census results are in, and Decatur County, like the Hoosier State overall, saw a net increase in its population as well as some changes in the diversity within the overall number.

The county had 24,555 residents at the time of the 2000 census, and at the 2010 census, there were 25,750. This marks an overall population increase of 4.8 percent in the past decade. This lags a bit behind the overall state growth of 6.6 percent, but far exceeds the growth of many other counties. Rush County, for example, lost 4.8 percent, while Blackford County (county seat Hartford City) lost 9.1 percent.

Another change was also apparent in the 2010 census. The total minority population increased by 481 people (103.9 percent) from 463 to 944 in the past 10 years. Those reporting their race as "white" increased in number by 867 (3.6 percent). Residents reporting their race as "Asian" increased by 9 (5.1 percent). The number of people reporting their race as "other" increased by 141 individuals (266 percent) while those reporting "multi-race" increased by 98 people (77.2 percent). Those reporting their race as "Hispanic" increased by 294 individuals (222.7 percent) while those reporting themselves as "white, non-Hispanic" increased by 704 individuals (2.9 percent). The largest percentage increase was seen in those reporting their race as "black" with a total in 2010 of 82 people, compared with 12 in 2000 (a 583.3 percent increase).

A change that many would have guessed was also quantified by the census. The total number of housing units in Decatur County increased by 12.2 percent during the previous decade, increasing the ranks by 1,217 homes. However, twice as many of these homes are unoccupied than 10 years ago. In 2000, of the 9,992 housing units in the county, 603 were vacant. In 2010, of the 11,209 housing units, 1,232 were vacant at the time of the census. By looking at the number of occupied housing units compared to the overall population, at the time of the 2010 census, the average number of people living in a household was 2.58, compared with 2.46 in 2000.

The city of Greensburg, meanwhile, saw its own growth, reaching a population of 11,492 at the time of the 2010 census. Of these, 11,048 report themselves as "white," while 50 report themselves as black, 154 report themselves as "Asian," 133 report themselves as "other," 107 report themselves as "multi-race," 273 report themselves as "Hispanic" and 10,891 report themselves as "white, non-Hispanic." The total minority population at the time of the census was 601 individuals. The total number of housing units in Greensburg at the time of the 2010 census was 5,185, of which 524 were unoccupied. When taken into consideration with the total city population, the average houshold size is 2.46.

Devotional – Why Church? Week 5

2011-02-02T15:13:00.003-05:00

Due to a change in schedule stemming from missing a Sunday in order to attend Emily's grandmother's funeral, this devotion is late in coming. The sermon that goes with this devotional will be given on February 6^th. I hope this is helpful.

Why Church?

Powerful Generosity

Reading: Matthew 6:19-24

"Don't store up treasures here on earth, where moths eat them and rust destroys them, and where thieves break in and steal. Store your treasures in heaven, where moths and rust cannot destroy, and thieves do not break in and steal. Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be. "Your eye is a lamp that provides light for your body. When your eye is good, your whole body is filled with light. But when your eye is bad, your whole body is filled with darkness. And if the light you think you have is actually darkness, how deep that darkness is! "No one can serve two masters. For you will hate one and love the other; you will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money (Wealth).

Treasure

Jesus mentions two places where treasures can be stored up. On earth it is possible to accumulate a great deal of stuff or a significant bank account. Such treasures do not last. Without constant attention they will fade, disappear, or be destroyed. The other place treasure can be stored is heaven. This sort of treasure does not need protection and management. It is not as simple as stuff or a bank account. It will not fade, disappear, or be destroyed. This treasure is eternal and significant. What sort of treasure do you value most? How much of your life is devoted to earthy stuff compared to the things of God?

Health

Jesus shifts from the image of treasure to the image of eyesight. Treasures are outward while an eye is internal but looking outward. If our eyes are focused only on earthly treasures than we have traded light for darkness and become unhealthy. The root of the issues isn't treasure. Instead, it is the focus of a person's heart and life. Jesus is inviting his people to focus on the parts of life that are truly meaningful. He does not want us to be chained down and filled with worry by earthly stuff. Jesus recognizes the tension between the things of earth and the things of God. There isn't a middle ground here. Generosity is a tool used by God to help his people remain devoted to the light, health, and real treasure. Why Church? It keeps us focused on storing up real treasure.

Grandma Kregel

2011-01-19T16:42:00.002-05:00

For those who have not heard, Emily's grandmother passed away on Monday. She was an incredible woman with an amazing heart and a wonderful smile. She was a regular facebook user who watched sermons online and wasn't afraid to use Skype. The fact that she was that technology aware in her 80's speaks to her attitude towards life. She will be missed.

Betty Ellen Kregel

Dates:

Birth date: October 01, 1922

Death date: January 17, 2011

Obituary:

On January 17, 2011, Betty Ellen Kregel went Home to be with her Lord and Savior. She will be remembered for her beautiful smile, contagious laugh, unconditional love, and servant heart. She was born in Hospers, Iowa, on October 1, 1922, the daughter of Bernard and Florence Grotenhuis. She will be greatly missed by her loving husband of 64 years, Bob Kregel; her children, Ron (Suzanne) Kregel, Jan (Paul) Anderson, Jim (Kathie) Kregel, Jodie (Pete) Wollman, Kerry (Dan) Schmock; 14 grandchildren; 23 great-grandchildren; her sister, Evie Brus; and sisters-in-law Marion Konyndyk and Bea Grotenhuis-Zylstra. She was preceded in death by her parents, first husband, 2nd Lt. Bill Konyndyk; and brother, Frank Grotenhuis. Betty was an active volunteer at Bethany Christian Services, Radio Bible Class, Calvary Church, and Spectrum Health, among others. She assisted her husband at Kregel Publications, Kregel Used Books, and Kregel Parable Christian Stores. A celebration of her life will be at 11 a.m. on Saturday, January 22 at Calvary Church, 707 East Beltline NE, Grand Rapids, with Dr. Douglas Fagerstrom officiating. The family will greet friends and relatives on Thursday, from 2 to 4 p.m. and 6 to 8 p.m. and from 2 to 4 p.m. on Friday at the Zaagman Memorial Chapel and Saturday one hour before the service at Calvary Church. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Mel Trotter Ministries or Calvary Church.

Devotional – Why Church? Week 4

2011-01-16T08:00:00.000-05:00

Why Church?

Loving Relationships

Reading: 1 John 4:7-12

Beloved, let us love one another, because love is from God; everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, for God is love. God's love was revealed among us in this way: God sent his only Son into the world so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins. Beloved, since God loved us so much, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God lives in us, and his love is perfected in us.

God's Love

Love is not original to me. Love is not confined to a personal choice or action. Love is greater than this. It was love that brought the world into existence. It was love that went to the cross and laid down its life for my sake. Love is the vehicle by which we can know and relate with God. While love cannot wholly describe God, He has chosen love as His means of relating to us. To know God is to have received and recognized love. God's love extends to all people at all times. In a world where many attempt to paint God as full of wrath and hate, isn't it beautiful to remember how God has revealed Himself…as love. God does not describe Himself as the God of hate, but as the God who is love. He brought love into the world and He embodies love fully.

Love in Action

Love is not passive. Love takes action. God's love brought the world into existence and brought salvation to all. To love is to do. Because we have been so deeply loved we are called to love others. Knowing the love of God should motivate us to actively love those around us. We do not love because others deserve it or have earned it. God does not love us this way. We love sacrificially as God has loved us sacrificially. To love is to tap into the nature of God. We receive it without conditions and we are to pass it on in the same way. Sometimes love is hard, yet it is always beautiful. Love makes visible the nature of God. When we love we become more in tune with God who is at work in us. Love created the world, love forever changed the world, and that love is available and working in each of us.

Devotional – Why Church? Week 3

2011-01-09T08:00:00.000-05:00

Why Church?

Everyday Life

Reading: Matthew 19:23-30

Then Jesus said to his disciples, "I tell you the truth, it is very hard for a rich person to enter the Kingdom of Heaven. I'll say it again—it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the Kingdom of God!" The disciples were astounded. "Then who in the world can be saved?" they asked. Jesus looked at them intently and said, "Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But with God everything is possible." Then Peter said to him, "We've given up everything to follow you. What will we get?" Jesus replied, "I assure you that when the world is made new, and the Son of Man sits upon his glorious throne, you who have been my followers will also sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. And everyone who has given up houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or property, for my sake, will receive a hundred times as much in return and will inherit eternal life. But many who are the greatest now will be least important then, and those who seem least important now will be the greatest then.

Who Is the Rich Person?

This discussion Jesus has with his disciples follows a discussion Jesus had with a rich young ruler. The rich young ruler wanted eternal life but was unwilling to give up his riches for it. He went away from Jesus sad. Jesus chose this moment to teach his disciples about what is important. The things valued by society are not always what the Lord values in eternity. Are we willing to trade some earthly comforts/prestige for something with eternal significance? Are we the disciples or the rich young ruler?

The Last and the First

The disciples had set aside all things to focus exclusively on following Jesus. The valuable things in their lives were wrapped up in what Jesus was doing. Their sacrifice led to reward. God's reward is not like rewards we give. It is not wealth or fame. This reward is greatness. Greatness if found in connection with God. Wealth encourages independence from God in an effort to make ourselves great. This effort is doomed to failure. We cannot achieve a personal greatness that will come close to rivaling the greatness of the Lord. Don't throw away the greatness of God in pursuit of greatness in this world.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

2011-01-04T20:30:00.005-05:00

I should have posted this 2 weeks ago, but it doesn't make the wishes any less heartfelt.

Merry Christmas from our house to yours!

We wish you a blessed 2011!

Devotional – Why Church? Week 2

2011-01-02T08:00:00.000-05:00

Why Church?

The Role of Faith

Reading: 1 Corinthians 1:26-2:5

Remember, dear brothers and sisters, that few of you were wise in the world's eyes or powerful or wealthy when God called you. Instead, God chose things the world considers foolish in order to shame those who think they are wise. And he chose things that are powerless to shame those who are powerful. God chose things despised by the world, things counted as nothing at all, and used them to bring to nothing what the world considers important. As a result, no one can ever boast in the presence of God. God has united you with Christ Jesus. For our benefit God made him to be wisdom itself. Christ made us right with God; he made us pure and holy, and he freed us from sin. Therefore, as the Scriptures say, "If you want to boast, boast only about the Lord." When I first came to you, dear brothers and sisters, I didn't use lofty words and impressive wisdom to tell you God's secret plan. For I decided that while I was with you I would forget everything except Jesus Christ, the one who was crucified. I came to you in weakness—timid and trembling. And my message and my preaching were very plain. Rather than using clever and persuasive speeches, I relied only on the power of the Holy Spirit. I did this so you would trust not in human wisdom but in the power of God.

What is Important?

We like to be important. We like to be recognized. We like to have power and authority. Many spend their entire lives in search of these things. Yet God continually uses the despised, the unnoticed, the weak, and the powerless to do His work. What is important to God and what is important to humanity often don't match up. Faith recognizes our need for God. It places us in a position of humility so that we become open to the power and presence of God.

Human Wisdom vs. The Power of God

You do not have to have all the right credentials and education in order to do God's work. You must have faith. Faith opens us up to Jesus Christ who is the source of wisdom, the one who enables us to live as God created us to live, the bringer of purity and holiness, and the one who frees us from sin. Nothing in our humanness can accomplish these things. It is only the power of God at work in Christ. Greater faith leads to greater life in Christ.

Devotional – Why Church? Week 1

2010-12-26T08:00:00.000-05:00

Why Church?

Who are we?

Reading: Galatians 5:5-6

By faith we eagerly await through the Spirit the righteousness for which we hope. For in Christ Jesus…The only thing that counts is faith expressing itself through love.

The Church of God

The First Church of God is a friendly place that welcomes all to God's family. We are connected with the Church of God movement headquartered in Anderson Indiana. This movement traces its roots back to the late 1800's and seeks to break down the walls that might keep people from knowing and experiencing the life changing salvation found in Christ.

We at First Church seek to discover and follow God's Will, live out the truth found in the scripture, and respond as the Holy Spirit directs to needs around us. We desire to be a place where real life intersects with our real God and finds expression in real love and faith. As we follow God together we become more united and more like Jesus Christ.

Faith Expressing Itself

The church is not founded on an idea. It is not founded on a law or a system of government. It is not founded in history or tradition. It is not founded on morality and being a "good person". The church is founded on a person. That person is Jesus Christ. Jesus is the central focus of the church. If you try to approach or understand the church in any other way you will miss the point.

With Jesus Christ as our center we are able to understand how to function. The church has a job to do. Remarkably, one part of that job is to wait. We wait on the leading of the Lord as we wait on the Lord to work in us and through us. How good are we at waiting?

Secondly, our job is to be an expression of God. As we wait on the Lord and follow Him in His working we become living and breathing testimonies of God's own nature. God is holy. God is love. God is one. As we follow God we become more holy, we love more, we become unified. Our real life is altered to reflect our real God. How effectively does your real life express God?

A Great House

2010-12-21T16:16:00.003-05:00

This video always cracks me up. I have made a habit of watching it around Christmas the last several years. Call it stress relief. Enjoy.

I also enjoy the Garmin Holiday commercials. They haven't had a new one out this year, but this is an older one I had not seen until today. Here are the lyrics.

One for a man, in a little van Get there with ease, hair in the breeze One for commuter, on motor scooter Rolls down a hill, bugs in her grill One for the sport, where are the shorts Are very tight, made for a bike One for a Nun, out for a run Wrist keeps a log, what she has jogged One for a Viking, out for some hiking Find a village, he will pillage Find what you want, find what you wish There's even one to find a fish Give a, Give a, Give a, Give a Garmin Find something fun, for everyone

Merry Christmas!

Advent Devotional – Christmas Eve

2010-12-19T08:00:00.001-05:00

Christmas Eve Service

Good News of Great Joy

Reading: Luke 2:8-14

In that region there were shepherds living in the fields, keeping watch over their flock by night. Then an angel of the Lord stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, "Do not be afraid; for see—I am bringing you good news of great joy for all the people: to you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign for you: you will find a child wrapped in bands of cloth and lying in a manger." And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host, praising God and saying, "Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace among those whom he favors!"

Shepherds

Shepherds were not people who were held in high regard. They were hard workers who did what others would not. The nature of their job left them spiritually unclean and unable to do much in the Temple. Yet these were some of the first to hear the Good News of the Messiah. The shepherds who looked after the Temple lambs were the first to see the Lamb of God.

Christmas isn't limited to people of proper status who look right and do all the right things. Christmas is for the hard workers. The unnoticed and unappreciated ones were given great honor. Christ came for all in order to save all. Christ came for you. The God of all creation knows and loves even the least among us.

Angels

The angels had a message. With that message came the glory of the Lord. Into the darkness of the night came the glory of the Lord. At first the shepherds were terrified. What was happening was outside of what they knew and understood. Imagine if this happened to you. How would you respond?

Fear gave way to joy. The angels brought good news. The long expected Messiah had come. Signs were given. Worship began. From fear came joy and worship. The coming of Jesus demonstrates the goodness of God. He is worthy of praise and worship. He has done for us what no other could. How will you worship Him today?

Advent Devotional – Fourth Week

2010-12-12T08:00:00.002-05:00

4^th Sunday of Advent

He Will Save His People

Reading: Matthew 1:18-25

Now the birth of Jesus the Messiah took place in this way. When his mother Mary had been engaged to Joseph, but before they lived together, she was found to be with child from the Holy Spirit. Her husband Joseph, being a righteous man and unwilling to expose her to public disgrace, planned to dismiss her quietly. But just when he had resolved to do this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, "Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife, for the child conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will bear a son, and you are to name him Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins." All this took place to fulfill what had been spoken by the Lord through the prophet: "Look, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall name him Emmanuel," which means, "God is with us." When Joseph awoke from sleep, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded him; he took her as his wife, but had no marital relations with her until she had borne a son; and he named him Jesus.

A Choice

Jesus put Mary and Joseph into a difficult situation. His birth challenged their understanding of righteousness. The "right" thing for Joseph to do was to divorce Mary quietly. This would preserve as much honor as possible for both. Then the angel appeared and declared the Holy Spirit to be at work. The angel declared that this child would be the promised savior. Joseph had a choice. He could do what was right or what appeared to be right. Praise God that he chose to do the right thing and stay with Mary.

A Savior

The savior comes to us in many ways. Often the presence of Jesus challenges what we assume about ourselves and the world around us. Jesus does not fit easily into predetermined roles and boundaries that we set. His coming was expected, but he did not come the way that was expected. His way brought life from death, creation from destruction, and salvation to all.

Jesus presents us with choice.
Can we set aside our ideas of how things are to pursue the way of Jesus? His way will challenge us. Are we willing to accept the life that Jesus has come to give us? Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. Let us seek Him.

Advent Devotional – Third Week

2010-12-05T08:00:00.000-05:00

3^rd Sunday of Advent

Jesus the Son of God

Reading: Matthew 3:13-17

Then Jesus came from Galilee to John at the Jordan, to be baptized by him. John would have prevented him, saying, "I need to be baptized by you, and do you come to me?" But Jesus answered him, "Let it be so now; for it is proper for us in this way to fulfill all righteousness." Then he consented. And when Jesus had been baptized, just as he came up from the water, suddenly the heavens were opened to him and he saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and alighting on him. And a voice from heaven said, "This is my Son, the Beloved, with whom I am well pleased."

I Need to be Baptized

Jesus was aware of himself. He knew who he was and knew what God was calling him to do. His baptism was a choice. It was the start of a longer journey that would lead to the cross.

The baptism of John was a baptism of repentance, but Jesus had never sinned. He was without need of repentance. The baptism of Jesus is about submitting to the will of God. Jesus was intentionally deciding to do the will of his Father.

The baptism of Jesus was also a confirmation. John was a respected rabbi whose words carried weight. He identified Jesus as someone greater than himself. More than John, the voice of God identified Jesus as a favored son. Jesus was the right man on the right path.

The words God used are taken from the scripture. They are found in Psalm 2:7 and Isaiah 42:1. Each of these scriptures is considered Messianic. They have been and are still used to point towards the Messiah. God is using phrases that declare Jesus as the promised Messiah.

Who Are You?

What are you looking for? Our tendency is to separate faith and God from our everyday life. Doing so often leaves us feeling lost and confused in both. Jesus submitted to the will of God. God honored Jesus and confirmed his call. The life of Jesus and the faith of Jesus were not separate. Our lives come into clearer focus when we submit to God and allow Him to shape and guide us entirely.

Advent Devotional – Second Week

2010-11-28T08:00:00.001-05:00

2^nd Sunday of Advent

Jesus is the Messiah

Reading: Matthew 16:13-20

Now when Jesus came into the district of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, "Who do people say that the Son of Man is?" And they said, "Some say John the Baptist, but others Elijah, and still others Jeremiah or one of the prophets." He said to them, "But who do you say that I am?" Simon Peter answered, "You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God." And Jesus answered him, "Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah! For flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but my Father in heaven. And I tell you, you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not prevail against it. I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven." Then he sternly ordered the disciples not to tell anyone that he was the Messiah.

They Say…You Say…

Jesus is a master teacher. He has taken his disciples to Caesarea Philippi. Here they are literally surrounded by all forms of worship. Pagan temples to various gods, worship of Greek gods, a strong Jewish tradition, and an incredible temple for those that worship Caesar. Essentially, Jesus is pointing out "who they say" God is. He focuses the disciples on this when he asks "who do they say I am?" Then Jesus asks his disciples "who do you say that I am?" Peter replies, "you are the Messiah." Peter got it! He has heard the teaching of Jesus and God has opened his eyes to the truth. The truth is not found in "who they say", it is found in the Messiah.

The Rock

Peter became the rock on whom God will build His church. It was not Peter's personality or ability that made him the rock. It was his personal confession of faith. He knew Jesus as the son of the living God…the Messiah. On that foundation the church will be built and find its purpose and meaning. Jesus is no ordinary man. Following Jesus isn't like any other religion. Its strength is found in the person of Jesus Christ who overcame death itself to rescue all. God gives His church the power to do His work. Are you standing on the rock? Who do you say that Jesus is? How has that changed you?

Advent Devotional – First Week

2010-11-21T08:00:00.001-05:00

1^st Sunday of Advent

David and the Messiah

Reading: Matthew 22:41-46

Now while the Pharisees were gathered together, Jesus asked them this question: "What do you think of the Messiah? Whose son is he?" They said to him, "The son of David." He said to them, "How is it then that David by the Spirit calls him Lord, saying, 'The Lord said to my Lord, "Sit at my right hand, until I put your enemies under your feet" '? If David thus calls him Lord, how can he be his son?" No one was able to give him an answer, nor from that day did anyone dare to ask him any more questions

David's Son?

At First glance this passage makes very little sense. We have a set of teachers and experts of religion gathered together. Jesus asks them a question about the Messiah. We can phrase Jesus' question this way "Why do they call the Messiah the son of David?" Jesus refers to Psalm 110 which is a song written by David about the Messiah. In that Psalm David refers to the Messiah as Lord. Jesus answers his own question this way "You cannot compare the Messiah to David. The Messiah is more than what you think him to be." The Messiah cannot be David's son and David's Lord at the same time.

In Matthew, Jesus has been keeping his declarations about being the Messiah quiet and limited to his disciples. It is because people don't truly understand the nature of the Messiah. They expect him, but cannot recognize him. They are so certain of their misplaced expectations that they have no answer to the words of the Messiah in their midst. The teachers and experts knew that they had heard a powerful truth, but it did not fit with their teachings.

Jesus?

Today we face a similar problem. When people hear the name of Jesus their heads are filled with teachings and expectations that may be inadequate. Our expectations of Jesus can blind us to the work and presence of Jesus. This week, clear away your expectations of Jesus and simply seek to know your Messiah. Let Him make Himself known to you. Perhaps there is more to Jesus than you know. Perhaps Jesus is greater than anything you have experienced or expect. Perhaps Jesus wants to speak to you today.

Welcome to Advent

2010-11-20T08:00:00.001-05:00

The Story of a King series has ended. We have walked through 1st and 2nd Samuel in the space of fifteen weeks. It has been an enjoyable and powerful learning experience. The final message in that series will be tomorrow (Nov. 21st) covering David's song of Thanksgiving.

You will notice that there will be remarkably fewer devotional posts through the rest of this year. Each week there will be one devotional for the entire week leading into the next Advent service. I hope you have found these devotionals helpful. May we recognize the Messiah this Advent season.

Advent begins Sunday November 28th.

Devotional – David’s Final Words

2010-11-19T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 15 – Day 5 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 23:1-7

Legacy

David's final words express his legacy…that which he is to be remembered by. David's legacy is not a catalogue of achievements. It is not a listing of wealth, growth, and power. David's legacy is a spiritual legacy. His songs, which we find in the book of Psalms express the heart of a man and a king who followed the Lord. The Spirit of the Lord has spoken through the life of David. More than anything else, this is to be what he is remembered for.

David's final words end with a warning to the Godless. They are described as thorns which will be consumed in fire. The Godless shall not prosper. Specifically, if David's own descendants fail to follow God they will bring destruction, weakness, and pain to themselves and all the people. This warning proves to be true over time. God is the source of strength for His people. David's wish is that all who follow after him would remember this and seek the Lord.

David offers one final thought on Godly leadership. A leader who follows and fears the Lord becomes like morning sunlight and rain. He causes the people to grow. He brings good things into their lives. He leads them to God. Part of David's legacy is his example of Godly leadership.

Thoughts and Questions

From all that you have learned about David, does this expression of his legacy sound authentic? Why?

Who were the Godless that David was referring too? (Could it be his son Absalom, the Philistines, or Sheba?)

How has David's Godly leadership helped the people grow?

Your Legacy

David had a clear understanding of the purpose of his life. In his final words he expresses that purpose in order to make clear what his life was about. David does not do this to whitewash hidden failures and sins. He isn't trying to be something that he is not. His final words are and expression of reality and they match what we have learned of him.

What legacy are you leaving behind? What warnings would you give those coming after you? What will you be remembered for? Each of us has a legacy…a spiritual legacy (it could be good or bad). Spend some time thinking and praying about yours. Be honest. Be real. Allow the Spirit of the Lord to speak to and through you.

Devotional – The Lord Lives!

2010-11-18T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 15 – Day 4 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 22:32-51

Thanksgiving

The Lord has been faithful to David and the people. They have sought Him out and followed His direction. He has given them victory and strength at every turn. God promised to plant the people in this land under the kingship of David and his descendants. God has been faithful to His promise. David is thanking Him for this.

God acts with purpose. God acts justly and appropriately. God's promises can be counted on. God equips His people to do what He has directed them to do. David describes God as living, as a rock, as a shield, and as a giver of victory. For David, God was not distant or wrapped up in a theology or an idea. He was present, active, stable, safe, and effective. God is worthy of praise and thanksgiving.

As the song comes to an end David points this thanksgiving towards the future. The God who has been at work in David's life will continue to be at work in the lives of David's descendants forever. This song is meant to give thanksgiving but also to teach the people about the nature of God and their relationship with Him. It could be said that David's life has been a living testimony of God's greatness.

Thoughts and Questions

What happens to the enemies of God?

Who is it that protects, equips, and prospers the people?

Verse 47 seems to be a "life verse" for David. It quickly and clearly sums up David's relationship with the Lord.

Knowing God

This song of thanksgiving operates on facts. David's song is born out of a lifetime of following God. He is not repeating ideas that someone else had told him. Instead he speaks from his heart to the God he knows and who has faithfully guided him through life.

True thanksgiving operates this way. Spend some time today thinking about your lifelong relationship with God. What would your song of thanksgiving sound like?

Devotional – The Lord Rewarded Me

2010-11-17T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 15 – Day 3 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 22:21-31

Covenant

The people of Israel had long ago entered into an agreement with God. They vowed to be His people. How vowed to be their God. The Lord was and is forever faithful to His covenant. The people were less so. In this part of David's song, David remembers the covenant. David has spent his life both living out the covenant relationship with God and directing the people to live inside the covenant. He is not boasting about his own righteousness here. He is acknowledging the faithfulness of God coupled with the faithfulness of God's own people.

Here we also learn about the nature of God. As David and the people aligned themselves more and more with the covenant they became better able to see the goodness of God. As they became more pure, they could see and understand the purity of God. As they became more loyal, they could better see the loyalty of God. In their humility they could see the folly of haughtiness. God's way is perfect and following Him benefited the people. It kept them from the darkness.

Thoughts and Questions

Righteousness is not something to boast about or a tool to leverage God into doing what we desire Him to do.

Righteousness makes people better able to see the goodness and provision of the Lord.

David is proclaiming that God's way is the best way and giving credit to God for all He has done.

The Lamp

The Lord is a lamp in the darkness. He is the one who brightens the way. So often we are surrounded by darkness. Chaos, confusion, turmoil, pain, and suffering all have a major impact on our lives. Each of these things can destroy us. If we allow them, they will reduce us into someone we don't like and were never meant to be. It is the Lord who provides a way through such things. It is the Lord that turns aside the darkness and even uses the darkness to teach us what is true.

Is the Lord your lamp?

Devotional – The Lord Thundered

2010-11-16T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 15 – Day 2 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 22:8-20

Power

The Lord is described as a being of unimaginable power. He is the God of the storm. Nothing can stand against Him. Smoke, fire, darkness, wind, clouds, lightning, and thunder describe him. His presence caused the earth to quake and be laid bare. The anger of God scattered his enemies. God is fierce, powerful, and able to do whatever He wants.

Yet the Lord of power and the storm reached down and rescued David. He picked David up and put him in a safe place. God used His power to turn enemies away and rescue his people. The awesome power of God did not destroy, it saved.

Thoughts and Questions

Why do you think David describes God as a storm?

The power of God was directed towards what goal?

Who could stand up to the power of God?

Rescue

God is able to rescue you. God is able to reach down into your turmoil and bring you out safely. God has the power to do this. David experienced this power first hand. So can we. The power of God is directed towards the salvation of His people. Where do you need God's saving grace today?

Devotional – My God, My Rock

2010-11-15T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 15 – Day 1 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 22:1-7

The Song

David is a musician and a great one. This song of thanksgiving sums up David's life and relationship with God. David praises God for who God is. He refers to God as rock, fortress, and deliverer. God is a shield and a stronghold. God is the author of salvation. When David cried out to God in distress, God delivered him. These are more than flowery words. They express the lived reality of David's life.

The great enemy David faced was death. Death was assaulting David, entangling him in its snares. Without the Lord David would not have survived. Think of all the times David could have died. Think of all the times when David sought the Lord. David recognizes that his very life is a gift from God.

Thoughts and Questions

David is often described as a warrior and king. Here he is a musician.

How does David the musician fit with David the warrior and King?

Who is it that David calls out too?

Cry Out

David cried out to God who rescued him and protected him. When faced with dangerous and difficult circumstances it was the Lord who enabled David to overcome. God is still rescuing people today. Cry out. The Lord will hear your cry and respond. You can add your voice to this song of David's.

Week 15 Readings

2010-11-14T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 15

King David's Song

Readings

Day 1: Read 2 Samuel 22:1-7
Day 2: Read 2 Samuel 22:8-20
Day 3: Read 2 Samuel 22:21-31
Day 4: Read 2 Samuel 22:32-51
Day 5: Read 2 Samuel 23:1-7
Over the week read 2 Samuel 22:1 – 23:7

Questions and Thoughts to Consider

Day 1 – My God, My Rock (2 Samuel 22:1-7)

What phrases in this song stand out to you? Do you feel as if you could sing this song with David…that you have experienced God in a similar way?
The enemy in this song is death and the grave. In distress who does David call to? Who is the only one who can deliver him?

Day 2 – The Lord Thundered (2 Samuel 22:8-20)

How is God described in this section?
What had the enemies of David brought to him?
What did the Lord of thunder and storm bring to David?

Day 3 – The Lord Rewarded Me (2 Samuel 22:21-31)

What are the criteria for the Lord's rewards? What has David done for the Lord?
How does the Lord respond to loyalty, purity, and humility?
There is great reward found in following the path of God. How would you describe the path of God today?

Day 4 – The Lord Lives! (2 Samuel 22:32-51)

What is David thanking the Lord for in this section (several things)?
God is described as the "rock of salvation". What do you think David means by this?
If you were writing a song, what would you be thankful for?

Day 5 – David's Final Words (2 Samuel 23:1-7)

This song is David's legacy. The Spirit of the Lord has been at work in David's kingship and his songs (Psalms).
David compares his leadership under God to sunlight and rain. What benefit has David's kingship brought the people?
After reading about all of David's life. What have you learned?

Devotional – A Census and an Altar

2010-11-12T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 14 – Day 5 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 24:1-25

Taking Count

God is angry at the people of Israel. We don't know why. We also don't know why taking a census was considered an evil thing to do. Joab is reluctant to carry out this census. A census was used to determine the power and ability of a people group. Taking a census seems like trusting the power of the people rather than the power of God.

The census is taken and an epidemic breaks out. David recognizes that what he has done is wrong and seeks to make it right. The Lord prevents this epidemic from reaching Jerusalem. David follows the direction of God's prophet (Gad) and builds an altar to the Lord. He willingly chooses to pay for a sacrifice. He is willing to sacrifice to follow God. The epidemic is lifted because of David's actions.

The end of 2 Samuel is a story of sin and renewed devotion. God is the source of strength and power for Israel. Apparently people need to be reminded of this. God's power is and will always be greater than any other.

Thoughts and Questions

This story hardly makes sense to us. Sometimes sin sneaks up on us and what seems like a good idea is in fact a sinful one.

David's recognition of his wrong and his desire to make it right is an example for us.

David would not worship without sacrifice. He paid for the offering when he did not have too. He gave of himself to God.

God's power is greater than our plans.

The Altar

David's census became David's altar. While we might not understand why this census was a sin, we know David's response. When he recognized sin in himself he sought God, followed God's instructions, and built an altar. David's sin led him to seek redemption.

How would life be different if we were willing to build more altars? Sometimes we sin and just sort of shrug it off as part of life. Doing so doesn't help us learn and grow in our relationship with Christ. Seeking to turn a wrongdoing into an act of worship changes us. It forces us to face our sin and see how Christ can overcome it. It becomes our testimony. If you had to give a testimony of God's work in your life right now…what would you say?

Devotional – David’s Mighty Men

2010-11-11T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 14 – Day 4 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 23:8-39

The Three and the Thirty

David was surrounded by men known for their skill, devotion, loyalty, and courage. These men continually put their lives on the line to protect and aid David. They stood with David through thick and thin. They are worthy of remembering.

The three consisted of three men who simply could not be matched in battle. Each one distinguished himself by standing against impossible odds and winning. When everyone else ran away, these men held their ground. When others believed something impossible, these men went out and accomplished it. David was not surrounded by yes men. He surrounded himself with capable and intelligent people who could get the job done.

The thirty were led by Abishai. His name comes up often. These were the special forces of David's day. When David was in trouble this squad of men protected him. Giants died at the hands of the thirty. Battles were won by the thirty. David could trust these men and they did not fail him.

Thoughts and Questions

David was surrounded by warriors skilled in carrying out his will and protecting him. David was not alone in accomplishing God's mission.

These men did not stop because something was difficult or seemed impossible. They made the impossible possible.

Loyalty, courage, and devotion defined the hearts of these men.

Being Mighty

These mighty men set an example for all of us today. Our King, the Lord, has a desire for men and women who will stand up for Him and do what needs to be done. Jesus had his disciples. The Holy Spirit calls and equips us as disciples. Christians all over the world have the ability to be as mighty and as influential as these men of David.

Are we? Can we claim the same level of courage, devotion, and loyalty as these men had? Perhaps if more of us were like the mighty men or the disciples of Jesus the world would be a better place.

Devotional – Saul’s Bloodguilt

2010-11-10T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 14 – Day 3 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 21:1-21

7 Deaths

This story is hard to read and harder to understand. The facts of the story are simple. There is a famine. David seeks the Lord and discovers that the drought is due to a past sin of Saul. David seeks out the wronged people and asks what can be done to make things right. The wronged people demand blood for blood and ask for seven sons of Saul to be given to them. David complies with this and seven innocent people are killed and publically shamed.

Saul's sin was the break a treaty with a people. His desire was to eliminate a race of people from the land. Saul was the author of doom and death for a people who had done nothing wrong except be a different race than the Hebrew people. Saul's sin passed on to his children. Sin affects the family. Innocents suffer because of the sins of another. David is stuck. Something must be done to make this wrong right. What he has been asked to do is not right either. This is a no win situation for David.

The story does not end with seven deaths. It ends with an honorable burial. When the rains come David gathered all the disgraced dead of Saul's family and buried them with honor. A woman named Rizpah had two sons killed among the seven. She stayed with the bodies and protected them. David honored her actions. The sacrifice of these seven men restored honor to the entire house of Saul. Just as the sin of one can harm the many so the sacrifice of one can help the many.

Thoughts and Questions

Why did Saul's children have to pay for Saul's sin? Today, do children end up paying for the sins of their parents?

David was not able to protect the seven sons of Saul, but he did protect as many as he could. David sought the best possible solution in a no win situation.

David honored Saul's family beyond what was required. He made sure the sacrifice of the seven had significance.

Sacrifice and Sin

The consequences for Saul's sin continued long after Saul was gone. Sin continues to corrupt and destroy. It took a sacrifice to make things right. Redemption is as much a choice as sin is. It isn't easy to make wrongs right. It takes sacrifice. On the cross Jesus died as a sacrifice for us all. He willingly chose to give himself this way. Doing so overcame sin and redeemed humanity. Sacrifice is a powerful choice. It changes the world.

What are you willing to do to make a wrong right?

Devotional – Sheba’s Rebellion

2010-11-09T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 14 – Day 2 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 20:1-26

The Scoundrel

There was tension is Israel. The people of Judah had benefited from David's return and the rest of the tribes were not happy. The Binjaminite (Saul's tribe) were especially displeased with how things had gone. So Sheba calls for the people to separate from David's rule.

David must act. He calls his new leader Amasa to gather the people. Amasa fails to do this as David requests. Abishai and Joab lead David's men out against Sheba. Amasa had replaced Joab and then failed to do his job. Joab takes this opportunity to fix this and kills Amasa personally. Don't mess with Joab.

Sheba is on the run. He calls the "men of Israel" to stand against David but is unwilling to face David's wrath himself. He flees as far away as possible and loses the vast majority of his followers along the way. Eventually he is cornered in a small town where Joab meets a wise woman. She sees Sheba for who his is and basically negotiates with Joab to save the town. Sheba is turned on and killed by the same townspeople who sheltered him. Thus the revolt is put down.

Thoughts and Questions

Sheba saw an opportunity to gain power in the wake of Absalom's rebellion. He was a coward seeking gain from another's misfortune.

Joab protected David and was loyal even though he had lost favor with David. Did he kill Amasa to regain his position or did he kill Amasa to protect David from an incompetent general and potential traitor? Could it be both?

Sheba tried to use others to get ahead. He was unwilling to face what he was calling others to face. He is called a scoundrel and a worthless fellow. His death at the hands of those around him seems fitting.

Sheba

Have you ever sought to gain from another's misfortune? Most would say NO! to this…yet isn't that the root of gossip? How often does the gossip stand up and face the person they are gossiping about? The heart of a gossip and the heart of Sheba are not so different.

Notice Sheba's fate. Notice how he is described. Now take a good hard look at yourself. Is there any Sheba in you? If so, it is time to confess and repent. God does not honor the heart that delights in the pain of others.

Devotional – David Sets Things Right

2010-11-08T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 14 – Day 1 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 19:16-43

David's Kindness

David meets three people in this section of the story. The first is Shimei who was last seen following David around and cursing him. David spared his life at that time saying that he may be speaking God's message. Now it is clear that Shimei was not speaking for God. He has cursed the anointed of the Lord. He deserves death because of it. Shimei brings 1000 friends with him as he begs David for forgiveness. This is not a kind act. Shimei is trying to save himself. David vows not to kill Shimei…but neither does he forgive him.

Next David meets Mephibosheth. This is the crippled son of Jonathan who David had treated like a son. The servant Ziba made it appear as if Mephibosheth had abandoned David. Mephibosheth presents himself as one in mourning. He has not taken care of himself since David left Jerusalem. He challenges Ziba's claim. David makes sure both are taken care of and punishes neither.

Finally, David meets Barzillai who had sheltered and fed David while he was on the run from Absalom. To Barzillai David shows great gratitude and kindness. Barzillai is an old man who is unable to fully enjoy his reward. He sends another in his place and David honors his request. Barzillai leaves with David's favor and blessing.

Thoughts and Questions

David could have returned to Jerusalem like a storm seeking out those who stood against him. He had every right to do so. Yet David chose instead to display mercy, forgiveness, and gratitude.

David does not forget his friends and he does not follow the direction or rumor and half-truth. He seeks to do what is right and what is best for all of Israel.

David honors Barzillai who showed him grace. His least favorable action is towards Shimei who did nothing but condemn.

Grace

Grace is not earned or required. It is a gift. David gives grace freely to enemies and friends alike. David is not a grudge holder. He does not seek personal satisfaction in the defeat of his enemies. His focus is on what is best for everyone rather than what is best for himself.

David lives a good life. His life is defined by grace. We can live a good life defined by grace as well. What do you reward with your actions and attentions? Have you ever allowed yourself to become mesmerized by rumor and half-truths? Have you ever chosen personal revenge over grace? Today, seek out someone in need of grace and give it to them. Grace is always greater than vengeance.

Week 14 Readings

2010-11-07T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 14

Being God's Anointed King

Readings

Day 1: Read 2 Samuel 19:16-43
Day 2: Read 2 Samuel 20:1-26
Day 3: Read 2 Samuel 21:1-21
Day 4: Read 2 Samuel 23:8-39
Day 5: Read 2 Samuel 24:1-25
Over the week read 2 Samuel 19:16-21:21; 23:8-24:25

Questions and Thoughts to Consider

Day 1 – David Makes It Right (2 Samuel 19:16-43)

Shemei cursed David as he left Jerusalem. Now he bows before him in confession upon his return. What kind of person is Shemei?
Mephiboseth and Ziba meet David with conflicting stories. What does David do to set things right?
Barzillai helped David. How does David help Barzillai?

Day 2 – Sheba's Rebellion (2 Samuel 20:1-26)

Why did Sheba lead a rebellion against David?
Joab killed Amasa. Why do you think this happened?
Sheba was a worthless fellow. How did he meet his end?

Day 3 – Saul's Bloodguilt (2 Samuel 21:1-21)

Saul did a great wrong against a people. Essentially Saul began a genocide. Now who must pay for Saul's crimes?
David followed the legal and moral code of his day. That code resulted in the death of 7 innocents. What do you think of this?
Rizpah's grief and dedication enabled David to rescue the bodies of these men and give them an honorable burial. What does this say of David's attitude towards these men and Saul?

Day 4 – David's Mighty Men (2 Samuel 23:8-39)

David's work was supported by the devotion, loyalty, and sacrifice of many significant men. God honors those who work behind the scenes as well as those who take the lead.

Day 5 – A Census and an Altar (2 Samuel 24:1-25)

Why did David take a census of the people? What did Joab think about this census? David feels guilt after the census is taken and an epidemic arises. God is angry. Why?
How does the epidemic end? God is the true leader of the people.

The Kitchen Completed

2010-11-06T16:06:00.005-05:00

We have finally got our remodel completed. Those last few touches always seem to take awhile to complete. This is our dinner table set for our first formal guests. It is nice to have a dinner table again.

Welcome to the family room. We have all the furniture back in it and arranged in a way that we like. We still need to get some art on the walls but we haven't decided what or where yet.

This is Emily being very happy in her kitchen. I believe she is cooking some vegetables. Naturally.

The other half of the kitchen. Nothing exciting, just proving that it is done.

Thanks to everyone who helped us with the project. We love the results and are very happy.

Devotional – David Returns

2010-11-05T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 13 – Day 4 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 19:9-15

Bring Back the King

Absalom had taken the kingship of Israel. Now that he was dead the people did not know what to do. Many wanted David to return. Others were afraid of what David would do if he had the kingship again. David waits this strife out. He trusts the Lord and the common sense of the people.

Eventually David speaks through a message he sent to the priests. In this message David reminds the elders that the people want him back. He also points out that he is one of them, not an outsider. He gives Amasa (Absalom's general) the position that Joab (David's general) held. Amasa sways the last remaining troublemakers and David is asked to return to Jerusalem as king.

Thoughts and Questions

The leaders of Israel sided with Absalom and had reason to fear David. The people of Israel saw the good that David had done and how good a king he was and desired his return. Strife between the people and the leaders began.

David plays peacemaker. He makes it known that he will not punish anyone who sided with Absalom (by making Amasa general). David understands human nature and uses that understanding to reunite a nation. David is fixing what Absalom destroyed.

What do you think Joab was feeling? Joab had been with David from the beginning and won many battles for him. He was loyal and a great soldier. Yet he was being replaced by a man he had just defeated for David in battle. Was this punishment for killing Absalom?

Forgiveness

David forgives those who sided with Absalom. He does this in the name of peace and unity. David's willingness to sacrifice his need for justice allows the people to come together. Forgiveness opens doors that cannot be opened any other way.

Do you have someone you need to forgive? Don't live in the chaos of broken relationships, forgive people and allow God to heal those broken relationships. It is a better way.

Devotional – David Mourns

2010-11-04T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 13 – Day 4 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 18:19-19:8

"Oh My Son Absalom!"

Was the death of Absalom good news or bad news? Two messengers are sent to David. Both bring tidings of victory. To each David asks about his son. The first does not give a clear answer presumably out of sympathy for David. The second declares Absalom as dead and expresses it as good news. Absalom was an enemy, but he was also a son. What David's men hear as good news strikes David as bad news. His son is dead.

David mourns Absalom and he does it publically. The victory his men were celebrating turned to mourning. David made his men feel ashamed for standing with him against a usurper of the throne. David's grief is justified. He has lost a son. However, it is not good to project that grief on the people who were simply doing the right thing.

Joab calls David out for this. He reminds David of his role as king. He points out that this public action of grief devalues the men who sacrificed their lives to protect and restore David to the throne. He even hints that another rebellion will happen if David doesn't make this right. David listens to Joab and goes to the city gate. Doing this honors his men and enables the situation to press towards a healthy return to rightness.

Thoughts and Questions

Sometimes victory is costly. David's victory over the traitor Absalom cost him his son. Doing what is right is rarely simple or easy.

David acted as a father would in mourning his son, Joab acted ruthlessly in putting down this rebellion without concern for the king's feelings. This story asks the question…which way is right?

David puts the needs of the nation over his own need to grieve.

Love and Reality

David's mourning of Absalom was a good, natural, and healthy thing. The death of another is never something to be taken lightly. Yet David was ignoring the reality of who Absalom was. Absalom could not be restored with a handshake and a wink. He was a traitor and a deceiver. He brought death to the houses of many Israelites in his quest for the throne. David loved his son, but his son had done great wrong and must face the consequences. Joab helped David see this.

As David went to the city gates he did as many in his army must do. He publically recognized the sacrifice and the deaths of his men while still grieving Absalom. Absalom brought mourning to David and all the people through his actions. The fact that Absalom needed to die was reason for all to grieve. The reality of Absalom's sins brought grief to all of Israel.

Devotional – Absalom’s Defeat

2010-11-03T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 13 – Day 3 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 18:1-18

A Difficult Victory

David prepares himself for war with Absalom. David puts his army together and decides to go out with them. The men resist this and David decides to remain in the city. He is very clear about one thing. He does not want Absalom to be harmed if it is at all possible to avoid it.

The battle was fierce, but David's men achieve victory. Absalom was found by David's men and tried to flee. Somehow the mule he was riding went under and oak tree and Absalom became stuck in the branches. He is helpless and alone. Joab hears of this and chooses to disobey David's direct order and personally kills the son of the king.

Absalom is tossed into a pit and covered over by stones. His army flees in defeat as Joab calls off the attack. All that remains of Absalom is a statue he had made for himself because he had no son.

Thoughts and Questions

Why does David order his commanders to spare Absalom's life?

Why do you think Joab disobeys David's command concerning Absalom? Could this have anything to do with how Absalom used Joab to return to Jerusalem and be forgiven by David?

Through all of Absalom's plots and sins David still loves him. Yet he must also stand up against him.

How would you describe Absalom's legacy? Is there anything positive to say?

The Battle

Have you ever had to stand up to a person you loved? It is difficult isn't it? You desire the best for this person, but cannot allow the consequences of their bad choices to destroy your life. David's love for his son did not stop just because he had to fight a battle against him. Standing up for what is right does not mean that you set aside your love for the one doing wrong.

Devotional – Counsel for Absalom

2010-11-02T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 13 – Day 2 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 16:15-17:29

What Should I Do?

Ahithophel was the top political adviser of his day. He was a real threat to David. If Absalom listened to Ahithophel he would have a much better chance of succeeding in his rebellion. Ahithophel advised Absalom to make a clear break from his father by taking his concubines. Doing so would draw battle lines and force people to choose a side to support. In this way Absalom would know enemy from friend. He also advised Absalom to set out right now and kill David before David can organize himself and gather support. Ahithophel's advice was good and had Absalom followed it he would most likely have overthrown his father and become king.

David's friend Hushai who stayed behind out of loyalty to David and to counter Ahithophel also offers advice. He advises Absalom to wait and not go after David. He reminds Absalom of David and his men's ability on the battlefield and that a defeat now would turn public opinion against him. Hushai advises Absalom to gather and army and lead it himself. Hushai appeals to Absalom's fears and pride. His actions demonstrate a fear of David and Absalom likes the idea of personally taking his father down. He chooses Hushai's advice over Ahithophels.

Hushai warns David and buys the time needed for David to escape and get to a safe place. Ahithophel's advice would have succeeded. When Ahithophel learns that his advice has not been followed he knows that Absalom will be defeated and commits suicide. While David is gathering allies Absalom is losing them.

Thoughts and Questions

Absalom the deceiver is deceived by a man loyal to David. His trust in the wrong person will be his undoing. What reward comes from living a deceitful life?

Why did Absalom ignore Ahithophel's advice when everyone knew the extreme value of his words? What do you think motivated Absalom to choose Hushai over Ahithophel?

What does Ahithophel's death say about Absalom's rebellion? Siding with Absalom against David appears to be a poor choice to make.

Bad Advice

Some people love to give advice. Some people almost always give good advice. These two are not often found in the same person. Ahithophel's word was good and had been for all who sought him. Hushai had an agenda and a loyalty to another plan which influenced the advice he gave. Have you ever had someone give you advice that led you down a bad road? Was that intentional?

Absalom listened to the wrong people and met his end because of it. The deceiver became the deceived. Have you ever used deceit to manipulate others or achieve your own desired ends? How is this story a warning to us all?

Devotional – Hushai and Shimei

2010-11-01T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 13 – Day 1 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 15:32-16:14

Cursed

Hushai is an important political figure in Israel. He is loyal to David and desires to see David return to Jerusalem and the throne. The top political figure in the government has gone over to Absalom. Hushai is asked to undertake a dangerous mission. He is to remain behind and pretend to be loyal to Absalom. In this he can offer counsel that will help David return. Hushai accepts this mission because of his loyalty and friendship with David.

Shimei sees David and all his men coming by and runs out to shout curses at them. He throws stones and kicks dust at the king and his warriors. Abashai asks if he can silence this "dead dog" by cutting off his head. David stops him. David endures the cursing. In this David recognizes his own role in what has happened and is open to whatever curse or mercy God might show him. Where others see a crazy man throwing stones at warriors David sees a man who may be acting for the Lord. David shows Shimei mercy.

Another interesting note on Shimei. Shimei was from the tribe of Benjamin…the same tribe Saul was from. His curses have to do with the wrong he supposed that David inflicted on Saul. Shimei doesn't know the whole story. He has believed the deceits, rumors, and half-truths of others. Those beliefs cause him to act out in hatred and anger where it is not truly justified. David is not fleeing because of what happened to Saul. David is fleeing because of his failure to lead his own family.

Thoughts and Questions

What does loyalty look like? How is Hushai loyal to David? How can we be loyal to God?

David endures Shimei's curses even though they are crazy and off base. David will not make one wrong worse by hurting those who point out his failures. Hiding from trouble and pretending innocence and ignorance achieves noting.

Shimei is acting out of disinformation and half-truths. This has placed him in danger and will make him look the fool later. Half-truths and disinformation will do the same to us.

Hushai or Shimei?

These two are put in contrast with each other. One sees David's struggles as an opportunity to demonstrate loyalty. The other sees David's struggles as an opportunity to attack and hurt him. Hushai will play an important role in making things right while Shimei's foolishness will be made known and he will live only because of the mercy of David. How do you react to the troubles of others?

Be careful what you believe. Not everything that people tell us is 100% true. Don't be Shimei and act out of anger because of a half-truth with the intention to harm. Be Hushai and show loyalty to God and righteousness.

Week 13 Readings

2010-10-31T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 13

Exile and Return

Readings

Day 1: Read 2 Samuel 15:32-16:14
Day 2: Read 2 Samuel 16:15-17:29
Day 3: Read 2 Samuel 18:1-18
Day 4: Read 2 Samuel 18:19-19:8
Day 5: Read 2 Samuel 19:9-15
Over the week read all of 2 Samuel 15:32 – 19:15

Questions and Thoughts to Consider

Day 1 – Hushai and Shimei (2 Samuel 15:32-16:14)

Hushai was a political figure and David's friend. He was willing to put himself at risk for David. Hushai saw through Absalom's deceit, recognized what was right, and acted on that knowledge.
Shimei curses David. Why?
Shimei exaggerates and has been manipulated by deceit. His venom is based on half-truths. Revenge is his motive.
How often are we like Hushai and how often are we like Shimei?

Day 2 – Counsel for Absalom (2 Samuel 16:15-17:29)

Ahithophel advised Absalom to end this quickly and send men after David before David can escape. Wise Counsel.
Hushai advised Absalom to wait and gather a great army together. This bought David time to flee and prepare.
Absalom listened to Hushai and Ahithophel committed suicide. Absalom the deceiver has been deceived. It will mean his defeat.

Day 3 – Absalom's Defeat (2 Samuel 18:1-18)

The battle begins. David wants mercy for Absalom. Joab kills Absalom in a most embarrassing fashion.
What good came from all of Absalom's plans and deceits?

Day 4 – David Mourns (2 Samuel 18:19-19:8)

What is David's reaction upon hearing about Absalom?
How does that affect everyone around him?
What does this reaction say about David's character?
What does Joab do/say to David? Why?

Day 5 – David Returns (2 Samuel 19:9-15)

Who wants David to return as king?
How does David express his desire to return as king?
David replaces Joab with Amasa. Why do you think he did this?

Devotional – David Flees

2010-10-29T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 12 – Day 5 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 15:13-31

Let's Go!

David is told of Absalom's plot and he immediately gathers his household, servants, and allies in order to flee. David does not want to see Jerusalem throne into a civil war. King David does not want to see innocent people suffer because of his family. His leaving involved a sad march out of town. David, those with him, and the people of the city wept at this turn of events.

David was not without friends. The religious leaders in Jerusalem were firmly behind him. He kept the loyalty of foreign delegations that stayed true to him rather than acknowledging Absalom as king. He kept the loyalty of a major political advisor as well. David is not passive anymore. He is taking action. He is discovering who is with him and who is against him. He is setting up spies that will provide him with information. David is seeking God in the midst of this crisis. If it is the Lord's will, David will return to this city again. The sleeping giant is awake.

Thoughts and Questions

Absalom was not able to deceive all the people. While David had enemies he also had allies. The nature of his allies says a lot about David's character.

Why did David flee?

What actions did David take to prepare for his return?

Taking Action

David left the city to spare it from a major civil war. He also set things up so that he could overcome his son. David was a master warrior and tactician. He will never cease loving Absalom, but he also will not allow this revolt to succeed. David will stand against treachery and deceit.

Good people must not stand by and do nothing. Consider what you need to do today. How can you take action for God and for right in your life/family/job today?

Devotional – Absalom’s Conspiracies

2010-10-28T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 12 – Day 4 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 15:1-12

Usurper!

Four years go by. During that time Absalom took full advantage of his father's favor by meeting every traveler at the gate. He welcomed each one and responded to all who had trouble. Through this he gained allies and planted seeds of distrust for King David. "If only Absalom was judge…then everything would be set right!"

After the seeds of distrust had been sown well, Absalom goes to David with a made up request to go worship God in Hebron. David allows this. Immediately Absalom prepares for his rebellion. He gathers together supporters in Hebron and essentially takes 200 loyal supporters of David hostage. He is cunning, cold-hearted, deceitful, and treacherous. Through those methods Absalom grows strong.

Thoughts and Questions

David ends up looking like a fool as the son he had forgiven works for years under David's own nose to betray him.

Absalom stood to inherit the throne. This was not enough for him. He sought to take it by force. What does this say about him?

Is Absalom the sort of leader that God would choose or recognize as king?

Deceived

David trusted his son and had his trust turn to treachery. Have you ever faced this? How did it happen? How could you not see what was coming? Those that we trust the most are most able to hurt us. Beware deceit. Deceit leads to betrayal. When you see deceit forming in those you love, confront it. It is for your own good as well as for the good of the one you love.

Devotional – Absalom’s Return

2010-10-27T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 12 – Day 3 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 14:1-33

Joab's Story

David is of two minds about Absalom. On one hand, Absalom murdered his own brother and deserves banishment (at least). On the other hand, Absalom was David's son and David did not wish to be estranged from his son. Joab sees this and comes up with a way to settle the king's mind.

He enlists the aid of a woman to whom he gives a story to tell. The story is about a woman whose sons fought and one killed the other. The surviving son is being sought for punishment (death). However, if he was punished than the woman would suffer. Is it better to show mercy to the son for his injustice or to seek justice and cause an innocent to suffer because of it? This is a difficult question. David responded on the side of mercy. If the merits of this fictional story were applied to David's situation, than mercy would be allowing Absalom to return.

David figures out that Joab was behind this woman's story. He asks Joab to go and get Absalom and bring him home. However, Absalom is not allowed in the presence of the king. Absalom had the appearance of a king. After two years he seeks out Joab, but Joab will not come to him. To get Joab's attention, Absalom orders one of Joab's fields burnt to the ground. Joab comes and Absalom forces his way before David who ends up forgiving him.

Thoughts and Questions

There is always tension between justice and mercy. Which has the highest moral value?

Joab deceives David to help David. Is Joab afraid to speak directly to David on such a matter? David is allowing himself to be manipulated again.

Absalom appears perfect, but in fact is a scoundrel. He acts without regret or thought of the consequences and ends up pressuring Joab and deceiving David to get what he wants.

Justice or Mercy?

David's heart was full of mercy. He rarely killed or harmed another if he could help it. He had a deep love for his sons even when they did very wrong things. Mercy is a beautiful thing. It is the mercy of God that enables salvation and redemption. However, mercy can be abused. Absalom abuses the loving nature of his father for personal gain. He escapes justice in this way.

Have you ever been manipulated in this fashion? How did it feel when you discovered the deceit? Justice and mercy need to exist together. Leaning to far one way will unbalance your life. Show mercy where you are able, but don't neglect the need for justice as well.

Devotional – Absalom Kills Amnon

2010-10-26T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 12 – Day 2 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 13:23-39

The Plot Thickens

Two years pass. Absalom has not forgotten what Amnon did to his sister. Absalom plans a feast and invites the whole family. David is reluctant to go, but Absalom will not let the situation go. He especially wants Amnon at this feast. David wonders why but eventually relents and allows all his sons to attend Absalom's feast. The trap has been set.

Absalom plots with his servants. He tells them to wait for his signal and when Amnon is drunk they are to kill him. They are reluctant, but Absalom convinces them and they carry out the plan. When Amnon is murdered the sons flee from Absalom and the family is scattered.

When David hears about this he is told that Absalom has killed all of his sons. He is upset. Then Jonadab (the same person that gave Amnon his plan to assault Tamar) comes to David and explains that only Amnon is dead and it is because of what he did to Tamar. Absalom flees as David's other sons return and David mourns Amnon and Absalom. His two eldest sons appear lost to him.

Thoughts and Questions

Amnon was a cold-hearted and deceitful man who manipulated his father (David) and raped his sister (Tamar). Absalom was a cold-hearted and deceitful man who manipulated his father (David) and murdered his brother (Amnon). Compare the actions of these two men. One is as bad as the other.

Revenge makes us what we despise. Absalom compounded rape with murder. He came up with an evil plot and acted without thought for what was right, how his actions would affect others, and what the Lord desired.

Absalom's actions make him first in line for the throne. How much of this was vengeance for Tamar and how much was a plot to reach the throne?

David is once again passive and easily manipulated by his sons.

Revenge!

Absalom's expressed motive was revenge. He sought to make right what was done to Tamar. Murder does not fix rape. If Absalom was not already a cold-hearted and deceitful man he became one due to this action. Vengeance is mine says the Lord. While we might not like it, there is a reason revenge is not a good motive. In seeking to destroy another we wind up destroying ourselves as well. Evil is not best answered by more evil.

Do you have vengeance in your heart? Are you holding a grudge? Have you responded evil for evil? What is that doing to you? Don't allow yourself to lose your integrity and your walk with God when responding to the sin (evil) of another. Trust God and do what is right. Allow Him to have your vengeance. He will take care of things.

Devotional – Amnon and Tamar

2010-10-25T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 12 – Day 1 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 13:1-22

Rape

Some time passed…David's sin sends his family into a spiral of sin. Amnon (the oldest), Absalom, and Tamar (a sister) enter into a family squabble that is vile and disgusting. It will spiral downward until all of Israel suffers because of it. Amnon sexually desires his sister Tamar. He is distraught because this sort of union would never be allowed. So he turns to his friend (Absalom's son) who suggests a plan to get Tamar alone with Amnon. Amnon accepts and follows this plan. He premeditates a sexual assault on his own sister.

Amnon pretends to be ill. He requests that Tamar come to him and feed him from her own hand. David allows this. When Tamar arrives she bakes cakes and attempts to feed Amnon. Amnon refuses to eat until everyone leaves the house except Tamar. When she comes to feed him he takes her by force and rapes her. She attempted to stand up for herself and remind Amnon how vile such an act would be, but Amnon refuses to listen. Amnon's plan works and he rapes his own sister.

Once the act is completed Amnon could no longer stand the site of Tamar and has her forcibly removed from his house. Doing this disgraces her before all. She rips her clothes, puts ashes on her head, and runs away in tears. She runs to Absalom who quietly accepts her into his house. She remained a desolate woman. Absalom treated Amnon no differently than before as he saves his vengeance for the right time. David is angry but refuses to punish Amnon because Amnon is his firstborn and heir. (Absalom was David's third son and second in line for the throne.)

Thoughts and Questions

Amnon proclaimed his "love" for Tamar but sought only sexual gratification for himself. His lust took "love" and replaced it with "disgust". The most disgusting part of this story is Amnon.

Tamar is dishonored, betrayed, and destroyed because of Amnon's lust. Our sin affects the people around us.

What dirty politics are going on behind the scenes here? Amnon is first in line for the throne and Absalom is second. Absalom's son gives Amnon the plan he needed to trap his sister. Absalom does not express outrage or surprise when Tamar runs to him. Absalom will end up using this incident to remove Amnon and become first in line for the throne.

Compare David's sin with Bathsheba to Amnon's sin with Tamar. Amnon's sin is greater, but there are clear similarities. Once the sin spiral begins it only leads to greater sin and more destruction.

Some Time Passed

David may have repented for his sin and been forgiven, but the effects of that sin remained. David did not help his family move beyond his failing. So after some time passes…the sin repeats itself. Amnon sinned sexually while Absalom conspired to gather power. David's faults are repeated by his sons…only they are worse than what David did.

Sometimes the things we think are in the past are actually things we have not dealt with adequately. We still see the sins of parents repeated in their children. Don't just let time pass. Allow your mistakes to become learning experiences and use that to protect and guide your children. David was passive and easily manipulated in this story. Don't be like David.

Week 12 Readings

2010-10-24T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 12

Family Troubles

Readings

Day 1: Read 2 Samuel 13:1-22
Day 2: Read 2 Samuel 13:23-39
Day 3: Read 2 Samuel 14:1-33
Day 4: Read 2 Samuel 15:1-12
Day 5: Read 2 Samuel 15:13-31
Over the week read all of 2 Samuel 13:1 – 15:31

Questions and Thoughts to Consider

Day 1 – Amnon and Tamar (2 Samuel 13:1-22)

Amnon did a wicked thing to his sister Tamar. Tamar became distgraced and desolate because of it.
Do you consider the impact your sins will have on other people?

Day 2 – Absalom Kills Amnon (2 Samuel 13:23-39)

Absalom seeks revenge on Amnon for raping his sister. However, David mourns for Amnon and is displeased with Absalom.
Absalom responded to evil with more evil. This is not the way of the Lord.
Have you ever been controlled by a desire to "get even"? Is that the best course of action to take?

Day 3 – Absalom Returns (2 Samuel 14:1-33)

Through a woman pretending to be in mourning, David is convinced that sparing Absalom from death is the wise thing to do
What does this teach us about God's desire to restore broken relationships and bring forgiveness?

Day 4 – Absalom's Conspiracies (2 Samuel 15:1-12)

Despite David sparing his life, Absalom seeks to claim the throne by portraying David as being inattentive to the people's needs.
Have you ever manipulated another person to get what you want?
Have you ever torn another down in order to build yourself up?

Day 5 – David Flees (2 Samuel 15:13-31)

David is on the run again, this time from his son Absalom. David chooses to trust that God will deliver him from Absalom.
Describe your trust in God when things seem impossible, unfair, and discouraging.

Devotional - Nathan

2010-10-22T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 11 – Day 5 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 12:1-31

Enter Nathan

God always knows. We might be able to hide our sins from others, but God will always know. God sends Nathan to David as a prophet. Nathan tells David a story of how a rich man's greed robbed robbed an innocent of something precious. David is angry. He wants to take action. He wants justice. The heart that beats after God's own cannot stand actions as cold-hearted and wrong as what David was hearing. Imagine David's surprise when Nathan said…David…"You are the man!"

Nathan pronounces the word of the Lord over David. David, his house, and all the people would suffer because of David's actions. David missed out on a greater blessing by pursuing this evil deed. What was done in private will be made public and it will snowball. God recognizes the consequences of sin. He tells David what is coming. David is ashamed. He acknowledges his sin. Now he must face the results of his actions.

The child becomes sick. David spent seven days pleading for the life of his child, but the child died. David got up and worshiped the Lord. While sin brought trouble to David, David still sought after God. David returns to the business of being king. Solomon is born through Bathsheba and David wins another major battle.

Thoughts and Questions

How gutsy was it for Nathan to approach David the way he did? Nathan's words from the Lord changed the course of David's life.

David confessed his sin and returned to the Lord because Nathan was willing to answer God's call

Confession didn't relieve David of sin's consequences.

David did not abandon the Lord when bad things happened.

Being and Encountering Nathan

Nathan spoke God's word into a very difficult and dirty circumstance. He did it with courage, faith, and tact. God used Nathan to bring David back to righteousness. Have you ever encountered a Nathan? Do you ignore or reject the word of the Lord when you hear it…or do you allow it to change your life? Have you ever been a Nathan? Have you ever stood up for God and spoken a word of rightness into a wrong situation?

God calls and equips people to be like Nathan. To stand up for what is right. To help others return to God. To be the person that brings God into a situation. How can you be like Nathan today?

Devotional - Bathsheba

2010-10-21T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 11 – Day 4 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 11:1-27

David's Sin

King David had done great things for the Lord and for Israel. He had truly lived up to "the man after God's own heart" label given to him. Yet David was human and therefore subject to temptation and sin. When David should have been with his army and doing the work of a king he found himself peeping at a bathing woman. He calls her to him and the result of that encounter was a pregnancy. David's sin had consequences. All he has worked for has been put in danger by this sinful action.

So David decides to cover it up. He adds more evil to the evil he has already committed. He calls Bathsheba's husband home from war, but Uriah does not go to Bathsheba. So David sends a faithful soldier back to the army with a note for the commander Joab. Uriah delivers his note which tells Joab to all Uriah to be killed. Joab carries out David's order and Uriah dies…along with other loyal soldiers. David's sin has resulted in the betrayal and death of an innocent man. He has made those loyal to him accomplices. Sin spreads.

Bathsheba mourns Uriah's death and then moves in with David as his wife. She gives birth to a son.

Thoughts and Questions

If this had happened today…what would you think about David? How does this sin hurt David and the people of Israel?

David's plot to kill Uriah is completely out of line with how he has acted to this point. Sin breaks us out of our character and makes us into something we are not.

Sin spreads. David, Bathsheba, Uriah, Joab, the armies, David's servants, and through them all the people suffered. Sin never affects just one person.

Beware

This story is a warning. David was a great king and a great man of God…yet he fell into sin. So can we. This is why it is so important that we make every effort to stay in tune with God and following His will. Today, look at your heart and your actions. How close are you to standing on that rooftop with David before he calls Bathsheba to him? Seek the Lord and He will give you the strength to overcome sin.

Devotional - Ammonites

2010-10-20T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 11 – Day 3 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 10:1-19

Misunderstood

David sought to be a good neighbor and deal loyally with Ammon after their king died. So he sent servants to care for the king's son and bring well-wishes. When they arrived they were treated with suspicion. Hanun (the new king) listened to the poor suspicious advice of others and offered insult to David by shaving the beards of his servants and sending them home in disgrace.

David hears of this and cares first for his servants. He did not want them shamed further. Ammon understood that David was displeased so they sought to attack. They enlisted the aid of the Syrian army so that they would have an overwhelming force. David's commanders Joab and Abishai push back this initial attack. The Syrians gather together a large army and David goes to meet them. There is a battle and David wins. Ammon is defeated as are the Syrians.

Thoughts and Questions

How did a misunderstanding turn into a war involving three nations?

Did anything good come from the fear mongering and suspicious nature of Ammon's advisors?

God brought defeat to those who operated from fear and suspicion while continuing to establish His kingdom of Israel.

Seek Understanding

The leaders of Ammon received a kindness from David and treated it as a threat. They were so blinded by suspicion and fear that they went to war over it. They received loyalty and returned shame. This sort of action does no good for anyone. This "misunderstanding" ended in death and defeat for the nation of Ammon and the Syrian people.

What role does fear, suspicion, and distrust play in your life? Is it your first reaction? Can you receive something good from another without seeing a negative side? Where there are questions, seek understanding. Do not allow fear, suspicion, and distrust to lead you into situations you will regret later.

Devotional - Mephibosheth

2010-10-19T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 11 – Day 2 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 9:1-13

David's Honor

David made a vow to his friend Jonathan. He seeks to honor that vow now. The common practice of the day was to kill the entire family of the king that was displaced. In fact, Saul's family mostly died at the hands of others. David doesn't take direct action against Saul's descendants. Now David seeks to help any who remain. Mephibosheth was the crippled son of Jonathan who a servant brought to David's attention.

David speaks with Mephibosheth. Mephibosheth doesn't think much of himself. He refers to himself as a dog. He fully expects to be killed. Yet David tells him not to fear and sets him up as an important person in David's house. Mephibosheth is given land and influence. He sits at the table of the king. David makes sure that Mephibosheth's land is cared for and that his family will always have food to eat. David reaches out and shows amazing grace to a man who could easily be viewed as an enemy.

Thoughts and Questions

David had no obligation to Mephibosheth. Yet David felt a moral commitment to caring for the son of Jonathan. David's morals caused him to go above and beyond for the sake of another…even a potential enemy.

David took a man who considered himself a dog and treated him like the son of a king. This is what grace looks like.

Instead of fear and death Mephibosheth finds love and care. David's action demonstrates the heart of God.

Grace

Mephibosheth experienced grace as his broken spirit, honor, and body were lifted out of that nasty circumstance and given a place of honor and wholeness. Mephibosheth's story is our story. David's action is similar to what Christ did for all of us. God takes the broken and makes them whole. God takes those facing death and gives them eternal life. God is a God of grace.

Be like David. Be like Christ. Show grace to others. Not just to those you care about, but to all people. Be a person defined by grace.

Devotional – David at War

2010-10-18T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 11 – Day 1 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 8:1-18

King David

Israel is not always the one on the defensive side of war. Here Israel is not being invaded by an outside force. Instead, they are conquering others, creating allies, and subduing enemies. David is at the forefront of all this action. Everywhere he goes there is victory. Even when the odds are stacked against him, David prevails. This is because of God. God is with David and God is establishing the kingdom of Israel through David.

As a king, David is interested in peace and justice. His enemies have reason to fear him, but his own people can trust him. David is not a tyrant who acts out against all those that might be a threat to him. He brought unity to the people so that the government, the priesthood, and all the people would work together under the direction of the Lord.

Thoughts and Questions

Some of the things David did seem harsh and extremely violent, yet he was working in God's will. What do you think about this?

David's victories elevated Israel to a place of respect among the nations.

What role does David's emphasis on peace and justice have on these wars?

God Works

David lived and worked in the context of his day and what was going on around him. Yet he did not operate like everyone else. David's wars accomplished the establishment of a solid nation unified under a king. They also established the power of God as David gave God credit for all victories. God was at work for Isreal.

In the midst of his world, God worked through David to establish His power and bring people together in peace and justice. God continues to work this way today. How can God work in your context to demonstrate His power and bring people together? How can He use you to accomplish such a feat?

Week 11 Readings

2010-10-17T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 11

King David's Victories and Defeats

Readings

Day 1: Read 2 Samuel 8:1-18
Day 2: Read 2 Samuel 9:1-13
Day 3: Read 2 Samuel 10:1-19
Day 4: Read 2 Samuel 11:1-27
Day 5: Read 2 Samuel 12:1-31
Over the week read all of 2 Samuel 8:1 – 12:31

Questions and Thoughts to Consider

Day 1 – David at War (2 Samuel 8:1-18)

David fights many wars in the passage. Is he ever defeated?
Who does David give credit too and dedicate the spoils of these wars? What does that say about David's character?
What kind of king is David (vs. 15)?

Day 2 – Mephibosheth (2 Samuel 9:1-13)

Who is Mephibosheth and what does he suffer from?
What does David do for Mephibosheth and what reason does he give for doing it?

Day 3 – Ammonites and Arameans (2 Samuel 10:1-19)

David offers the king of Ammon a gesture of friendship. The kings advisors interpreted this as an insult and advised the king to offer insult in return. Conflict came from misinterpretation.
Compare the King of Ammon and King David. David's loyalty and honor are contrasted with foolishness and bad choices.

Day 4 – Bathsheba (2 Samuel 11:1-27)

David had it all. He was a victorious king blessed by the Lord. Why do you think he did what he did with Bathsheba?
One sin led to another sin as David tried to hide his wrongdoing. How did David's sin with Bathsheba snowball? Try to identify all the people who were negatively affected through this.
Bathsheba becomes David's wife and he thinks he is safe…but sin does not go unnoticed by the Lord.

Day 5 – Nathan (2 Samuel 12:1-31)

What is David's response when he hears the story Nathan tells him? What sort of justice does David want for this man?
How does David respond when he realizes what he has done?
How can we be like Nathan or like David today?

Devotional – A Prayer

2010-10-15T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 10 – Day 5 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 7:18-29

David's Response

The words of the Lord given through Nathan had an impact on David. He did not take them lightly. David responded. He responded in a humble and reasonable way…through prayer.

David begins with the question "Who am I?" His prayer is humble before it is anything else. David doesn't see himself as an equal with God. He recognizes the Lord's blessing on his life and is thankful for it. His prayer honors God and exalts Him. There truly is no one like our God. This is a prayer of praise and remembrance. David knows that God is with him.

This prayer is also a prayer of dedication. David willingly accepts this covenant and vows to be the servant of the Lord. The work of the Lord is a good thing in David's eyes. He is willing to commit himself and his family for all generations to God. This is a powerful step of faith.

Thoughts and Questions

David is making a capital for Israel and for God. He is willing to set aside some of his political goals in order to serve the Lord.

Humility, thanksgiving, praise, remembrance, and dedication are powerful ways to pray. What does this prayer tell you about the heart of David?

Covenant is a two way street. God promises His presence with the people and David promises to be present with God throughout the generations.

Present with God

Have you entered into a covenant with the Lord? Do you recognize His presence and promises in your life? Are you willing to give yourself over to faith as you dedicate your life to the Lord? The way of the Lord is not always easy. It doesn't always lead us down paths we want to walk. Yet it is the greatest blessing that can be found in this life.

Do some self examination. How dedicated are you to being God's person…fully dedicated to Him and His work? What do you need to do to become fully committed?

Devotional – The Covenant

2010-10-14T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 10 – Day 4 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 7:1-17

Prophecy

The prophet Nathan goes to David with a word from the Lord. David wanted to build a temple to the Lord. Nathan brings the Lord's response.

The Lord reminds David that He doesn't require a house. He has been with the people from the days of Egypt. The Lord reminds David that it was by the Lord's work that David went from shepherd to king. The Lord desires to plant the people in a permanent home. He offers protection and guidance while establishing a dynasty of David's offspring. The Lord will make Israel and the house of David great. The Lord promises to be true to this covenant even when David's descendants do wrong. The Lord may punish, but He will not reject.

In all this David is not given permission to build the temple. That would be the duty of his sons. The greatness of the Lord's work is to be spread out over generations and not limited to one leader.

Thoughts and Questions

Why does David want to build a temple? Is this another attempt to use God to strengthen a political position?

God has always been at work. He is not limited to one life or the attention span of a person.

The Lord works with a long view of life. David sees the now, but the Lord sees forever.

Greatness

David's greatness came from the Lord. True greatness is found in following the Lord and being the person God created each of us to be. How is God making you great in your life? Look beyond the right now and see how God has worked in your past and how God could work in your future.

Devotional – The Return of the Ark

2010-10-13T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 10 – Day 3 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 6:1-23

Here Comes the Ark

The people went up to get the Ark and bring it to Jerusalem. 30,000 people are celebrating the coming of God's presence into the City of David. Not only is Jerusalem to be the capital of Israel, but it is also to be the center of worship for the Lord.

The celebration was intense. It was a grand party…until Uzzah touched the Ark. This might seem like small thing. One of the oxen had stumbled and Uzzah reached out a hand in protection. Yet God was angry over this disrespect and Uzzah died. Now it's David's turn to be angry. The party is over. The Ark will not make it to Jerusalem that day. God's power was on display. In the days of Eli the people failed to respect the Ark. They treated the presence of God as a tool for their own plans. Uzzah's action came from that same thought. The Lord reminded David and the people that His presence was nothing to toy with.

Three months pass and David once again goes to get the Ark. This time he approaches it with greater reverence which leads to even greater joy. David danced before the Lord. His wife Michal saw him and did not like what she saw. It wasn't kingly. She confronts David and David rebukes her. David knows that he is not greater than the Lord. He will honor the Lord no matter how silly Michal might think it is. Michal had put limits on her relationship with God and missed a blessing because of it. She had no more children all the rest of her life.

Thoughts and Questions

Why did Uzzah die?

The presence of the Lord brought great celebration to all the people…except Michal. What kept her from knowing the joy of the Lord?

David cared more about the Lord than about what his own wife thought of him. God was the center of David's life and work.

Unashamed

How willing are we to dance before the Lord? Have you ever had a moment when you didn't want another to know about your relationship with God? When you didn't pray because others were looking? When the opinion of another mattered more than your service to the Lord?

An unashamed Christian is one who is willing to serve the Lord without reservation or restriction. If others don't like it…fine. What the Lord desires is far more important than what others think.

Devotional – David’s Victories

2010-10-12T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 10 – Day 2 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 5:17-25

The Philistines

The Philistines are quite the problem. They have been a constant source of trouble since the time of Eli. Only Samuel had defeated them in such a way that they hadn't been able to attack for a long time. Now that David is king here they come again. Twice they attack David and both times they are defeated. These battles served as an ultimate defeat as the Philistines left their idols behind. This signified a victory for God over the gods of the Philistines as well as a victory for David over the Philistines. The Philistines would not trouble David again.

A very important part of each battle was David's intentional seeking of God's direction. Despite all his success, David does not forget God. He seeks God and follows God's direction. Because of this David's victory is complete. David worked with God for the good of all.

Thoughts and Questions

Whenever there is good there is always struggle waiting around the corner. David is attacked after being made king.

What was God's role in these victories? How do you see David working with God to achieve victory?

David was humble and sought God. His greatness was intimately connected to his relationship with the Lord.

Seeking God

The heart of David desired God. This wasn't just to get ahead or because he felt obligated to do it. David was a loyal, dedicated, and faithful servant of the one true God. How willing are we to seek God? How willing are we to use our talents in the service of the Lord? How willing are we to give the Lord credit for what He has done through us?

Seek God today. May He show us all the way to go.

Devotional - Jerusalem

2010-10-11T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 10 – Day 1 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 5:6-16

A Capital

David had just become king of all Israel. Immediately he set out to find a suitable capital. This city would be a place that favored no particular tribe. It would be a place where the kingship could be established for a long time. It was also to be a place where God would be worshiped freely and in connection with the leadership of all Israel.

Jerusalem was perfect. It was a strong city in the middle of the land of Israel. It was a foreign city held by the Jebusites. It was perfect. So David went out and conquered the city. The Jebusites mockery and strength did nothing to stop David. God was with him and set David up in his own city where he became great. This is why Jerusalem is known as the city of David. This was the place where David truly became king in all aspects of the word.

Thoughts and Questions

David's actions were different from Saul's actions. Saul defended the people while David built a kingdom.

God was the center of David's work. This kingdom would be built as God directed.

Following God made David greater and greater. God showed him what it meant to be king.

Established

The real work of establishing a kingdom was difficult. Without God's direction and David's willing service to that direction it could not be done. Where Saul failed, David prevailed. The kingdom God set up through David was long lasting.

God is still establishing great things today. He works in the hearts of people to establish his kingdom. God's kingdom is not made of land or walls, but in the hearts of those who seek Him. Think about your service to the Lord. How can He use you to establish His great kingdom today?

Week 10 Readings

2010-10-10T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 10

Establishing the Capital and Covenant

Readings

Day 1: Read 2 Samuel 5:6-16
Day 2: Read 2 Samuel 5:17-25
Day 3: Read 2 Samuel 6:1-23
Day 4: Read 2 Samuel 7:1-17
Day 5: Read 2 Samuel 7:18-29
Over the week read all of 2 Samuel 5:6 – 7:29

Questions and Thoughts to Consider

Day 1 - Jerusalem (2 Samuel 5:6-16)

Jerusalem was a foreign city surrounded by Israelite people.
David's victory unified the people and set up a capital that had no ties to any tribe. Jerusalem would become the city of David and the center of Israelite culture and worship.

Day 2 – David's Victories (2 Samuel 5:17-25)

What does David do before going into these battles?
The Philistines abandoned their idols. This victory wasn't just David over an army…it was God over the Philistine idols. The Philistines were never strong enough to attack David again.

Day 3 – The Return of the Ark (2 Samuel 6:1-23)

David is angry at God for killing Uzzah. Why do you think Uzzah died when he touched the Ark?
The Ark was a symbol of God's presence. How does David react to the presence of the Lord? How do we react to God?
Why was Michal upset? What happened to her because of it?

Day 4 – The Covenant (2 Samuel 7:1-17)

God has worked with David to found a kingdom. He is planting Israel and renews the covenant with David. Does this remind you of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob?
David will not build the Temple. That will be the duty of his descendants. This covenant was not just for David and David's time…it was for all time. God was faithful to his covenant even when David's descendants were not.

Day 5 – A Prayer (2 Samuel 7:18-29)

In what ways does this prayer show us David's humility?
Does David view Israel as his kingdom or does he see it as God's own? Is this how we see the church?
How could this prayer be modeled in our lives today?

Devotional – David Becomes King Over All Israel

2010-10-08T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 9 – Day 5 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 5:1-5

A Recognized King

David no longer had any rivals. God has been at work leading David from his days as a shepherd to his days as a king. All the tribes gather together where David is. He has already been king of Judah for seven years. Now they wish to make him king over all of Israel.

The people remember David from his days with Saul. They remember how David was a shepherd over the people while Saul sank into confusion and paranoia. David has always lived and lead in righteousness and fairness. The people also acknowledge that David is God's own choice for king.

So the people recognize God's will and anoint David as king over all. David would be king over all Israel for thirty-three years.

Thoughts and Questions

God opened the hearts and the minds of the people. All that transpired taught the people and led them to David. God was at work through all this messy business.

David would be the king whose line led the people for 400 years. From David's line came Jesus Christ. God altered the world when David became king.

David's path to the kingship was through virtue and righteousness.

A Career

David's kingship lasted about as long as a standard career lasts today. Forty years of impact and influence. Because of who David was, what he did, and how he did it the world was changed. Each of us has a career. Each of us has a time of life that will define us. How are we living it? Is it a burden? Is it just survival? Does it provide significance and joy?

Today think about the impact your life has on the world. Live as David lived. You never know when God is going to use you to change the world for the better.

Devotional – Murder!

2010-10-07T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 9 – Day 4 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 3:22 – 4:12

Two Murders

First Abner, David had dismissed Abner in peace but Joab wanted him dead because he had killed his brother. Joab wanted blood for blood. David did not pursue that sort of justice so Joab took matters into his own hands. He got Abner back to Hebron and murdered him while Abner was under David's protection. David is not pleased and mourns Abner's death. He curses Joab and Abishai for their actions. Revenge does not belong in the heart that beats after God's own.

Second, Ishbaal, with Abner dead Ishbaal is even weaker than before. Two of his own captains sneak into his bedchamber and behead him. They take his head to David thinking that they bring good news…just like the messenger that brought news of Saul's death. These two captains are met with an even greater punishment as they are killed and put on display. David sends a message to all the people. He will not rule through fear and death. Violence is not the answer.

Thoughts and Questions

David desires fairness and justice. As a leader he holds people accountable to fair and just practices.

David does not seek to eliminate those who oppose him.

David punishes the unjust and the guilty. He has little mercy for those who seek power through violence and deceit.

Strength

Some believe that strength is only true when it is tested against an opponent. If a person is able to beat, hurt, or destroy an opponent then that person is considered stronger. Reality shows such as Survivor feed this notion. Deceit, deception, and fear are the primary tools of victory. This is a normal way the world works.

This is not the way God works. In David we see true strength. David holds fast to his integrity while pursuing justice. His strength comes from inside. David is true to himself while remaining true to God in seeking what is right. Fear is not a factor in David's decision making.

What sort of strength do you cling too? Have you ever taken advantage of someone to get ahead? Do you take joy in overpowering others? Do others need to be less so you can be more? If so, a change of attitude is needed. God doesn't work this way. Find your strength within and with God. Be true to who you are and live with the confidence only faith can provide. Then you will know true strength.

Devotional – Abner Switches Sides

2010-10-06T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 9 – Day 3 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 3:6-21

Strength and Weakness

Time passes and Abner realizes that he has backed the wrong side. David is getting stronger and Ishbaal is getting weaker. If Abner doesn't do something soon he will have no power at all. Abner dominated Ishbaal and treated Ishbaal's house as his own. When Ishbaal confronts Abner, Abner back him down with fear and the force of his personality. Ishbaal is weak and not fit to be a king.

Abner decides to use what power he has to get into David's good graces. He does as David asks and brings people over to David's side. David accepts Abner and allows him to go in peace. Abner has successfully switched sides and managed to hold on to some of the power he craved.

Abner's efforts hurt a lot of people. Ishbaal was exposed as a weakling who was put into a position he could not handle. Michal (David's first wife) is taken from her family and returned to David. David required a visual reminder that he was of Saul's house because of Abner's actions. Many people died in Abner's pursuit of power.

Thoughts and Questions

David treated Abner as one who repented of wrong. He sees Abner as someone trying to correct a past mistake and shows him grace by allowing him to go in peace.

Abner's selfishness brought much harm to those around him.

Can you see any manipulation going on here between Abner and David?

Deadly Power

You don't always get what you want. Unfortunately, that doesn't stop us from trying. Examine your life today. How much concern do you have for the people around you? Do you truly care for their wellbeing or are they just pawns in the grand event of your life?

David's view of life contrasts greatly with Abner's view. Choose to be more like David and seek peace.

Devotional – Civil War

2010-10-05T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 9 – Day 2 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 2:8 – 3:5

Opposition

Abner was Saul's primary general. He would make David's path to kingship a rocky one. Saul had a son who was not killed in battle. Abner takes Ishbaal to where David is not and makes him king. Abner is the one taking action here. He has set himself up against David and caused a civil war.

Civil wars were fought carefully in this day and age. The goal of both sides was to keep bloodshed to a minimum while overcoming the other. No Israelite wanted to kill his own people. So a contest is arranged where 12 men from each side fought. The winner would win the battle. Abner is beaten and retreats.

Yet one man ups the stakes. Asahel chases Abner and will not settle for the victory the 12 men of David won. Abner does not wish to fight Asahel, but Asahel leaves Abner no choice. Abner kills Asahel. Joab (Asahel's brother) pursues Abner now. The war gets more intense. Abner is cornered, but was able to talk his way out of it. In this battle David lost 20 men while Abner lost 360.

Thoughts and Questions

Ishbaal is of minor importance. Abner was the man seeking power. He set a man up as king without any concern for the Lord's will.

No one wanted a civil war. It served no good purpose. Abner's pursuit of power would harm those around him.

David and David's men were strong. Abner was not match for the servants of David…God's anointed.

Personal Wars

How much fighting happens for no good reason at all? How have you been harmed and harmed other over some petty little thing? The pursuit of power for the sake of power leads down dark paths that will harm you and those around you. What wars are you fighting? Are they worth fighting? How can God enter into your personal wars and bring peace?

Devotional – David Anointed as King Over Judah

2010-10-04T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 9 – Day 1 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 2:1-7

Going Home

David inquired of the Lord. David sought God's direction and followed it. Again and again David demonstrates his dedication to doing things God's way. The Lord has been a trustworthy guide for David and David is able to return to Israel. In the land of Judah he is anointed as king. David does not seek the kingship. The people of Judah seek out David and make him king. David's willingness to follow God led him to the kingship.

David is a good king. When he hears about the men who rescued Saul's body and honored him in death he sends a word of thanksgiving to them. He honors them for doing what was right. Where Saul might have seen a rival that needed to be dealt with, David saw brave men doing an honorable thing. David's leadership is vastly different than Saul's leadership. David sought unity rather than power.

Thoughts and Questions

Why do you think David continued to seek God's direction before every major decision? What does that tell you about David's personality/character?

Why is it important that David accepts the power given to him rather than seeking power for himself?

Why do you think David treated the men who rescued Saul's body the way he did?

Unity and Honor

David honored those who did what was right and sought unity at the same time. He listened to the will of God and the will of the people before taking direct action on anything. David valued God and people. How do you honor and unify those around you? How can you honor someone today?

Week 9 Readings

2010-10-03T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 9

David Becomes King

Readings

Day 1: Read 2 Samuel 2:1-7
Day 2: Read 2 Samuel 2:8 – 3:5
Day 3: Read 2 Samuel 3:6-21
Day 4: Read 2 Samuel 3:22 – 4:12
Day 5: Read 2 Samuel 5:1-5
Over the week read all of 2 Samuel 2:1 – 5:5

Questions and Thoughts to Consider

Day 1 - David Anointed King Over Judah (2 Samuel 2:1 – 2:7)

Compare how Saul became king and how David became king.
Have you ever desired something, only to find that what God ended up giving was better?

Day 2 – Civil War (2 Samuel 2:8 – 3:5)

For seven and a half years David was at war with those still loyal to Saul's household. The stronger David became the weaker Saul's house became. What God had anointed was not going to be destroyed.
Does this passage give you confidence in God's ability to sustain and strengthen that which he has put into work?

Day 3 - Abner Switches Sides (2 Samuel 3:6 – 21)

Abner was the captain who led Saul's men against David's men. Here we find him reaching out to David to consolidate all of Israel under David. David sends him away in peace.
What does David's act teach you about forgiveness and resolving conflicts?

Day 4 – Murder! (2 Samuel 3:22 – 4:12)

What does Joab's act teach you about what revenge, bitterness and distrust?
Then, some of David's men kill Jonathan's son. David orders those men killed. What does David's example teach you about justice?

Day 5 - David Becomes King Over Israel (2 Samuel 5:1-5)

David finally becomes king over all of Israel. Those who followed Saul recognized David as their rightful king.
Can following David's example of reconciliation and the pursuit of justice lead us down a better way of living?

Devotional – David Mourns

2010-10-01T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 8 – Day 5 of The Story of a King

Read 2 Samuel 1:1-27

Unhappy News

David has returned from his victory when a man from Saul's last battle comes to him. This man comes with news of the battle, the story of Saul's death, and the crown and armlet of the king. This man's story is untrue. He did not kill Saul; most likely he showed up after Saul was already dead and took from the body. He assumed that this would be good news to David. David's persecutor is now dead and David could be king. He thought he came with good news…instead he brought news of grief and pain.

David tore his clothes and grieved Saul and Jonathan. His men did the same for all the people of the battle. They did this the full day. After this David orders the man who sought to gain from Saul's death killed. Saul was the Lord's anointed and this man had not respected that. David was never Saul's enemy and even after Saul's death David fights for him.

David is a gifted musician and composes a song. This is a song of grief. It honors Saul. It remembers the best of Saul's life and mourns the loss of such a king. It recalls the close relationship between Jonathan and David and expresses the beauty of that relationship. It calls the people to mourn this great loss. David set down a good and lasting tribute to the Lord's anointed…even though Saul persecuted him unfairly for years.

Thoughts and Questions

The man with news came expecting David to react as an enemy of Saul would react. Instead he found a loyal soldier of Saul and a friend of Jonathan.

David was personally and deeply upset by Saul and Jonathan's death. In his heart they were never enemies.

David's song of grief lifts up Saul's best and honors him. David's final song for his king demonstrates a heart of grace that is truly beautiful

Grace

Saul considered David an enemy and treated him as such. David considered Saul the anointed of God and treated him with honor and grace. How do we respond when people set themselves up as our enemies? Can we love them as David did? Can we show grace when none is shown to us? Think of your enemies today…how do you treat them? Try to look at them as David looked at Saul and see if that does not change your attitude. Show grace.

Devotional – Saul and Jonathan’s Death

2010-09-30T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 8 – Day 4 of The Story of a King

Read 1 Samuel 31:1-13

A Sad End

The great battle that had stirred everyone up for the last few chapters now happens and it is largely anti-climatic. Israel is defeated, Saul's sons are all killed, and Saul is wounded in just three short verses. Saul desires death and asks his armor bearer to kill him. When his armor bearer refuses Saul falls on his own sword and dies. His armor bearer does the same. Once this is known the army and the people run from the Philistines.

Yet not all the people cowered before the Philistines. The men of Jabesh-gilead heard about how the Philistines had desecrated Saul and his son's bodies and set out to reclaim them. They were successful. Ultimately, Saul and Jonathan were burned, buried, and honored by the people of God.

Thoughts and Questions

Why doesn't 1 Samuel tell us more about the battle? Could it be that the battle wasn't the problem? The battle for Saul's soul and his kingship had been lost already…the Philistines just finished the job.

The symbol of falling on your own sword is significant. In one way it is more honorable than being taken by the enemy…a "going down with the ship" mentality. In another way it is symbolic of Saul's life. His destruction was largely due to his own choices and inability to follow God.

Saul's body was rescued by brave and loyal men. The Philistines had not erased hope from the people. The first king of Israel was buried and honored as the anointed leader he was.

Fighting the Battle

So much went into those first three verses of chapter 31. A war was fought and lost. Jonathan dies with just a mention. Saul was wounded. No heroes were found in that battle…only death. How many battles like this do we face today? We set out against a powerful enemy without the aid of God and suffer because of it. Most of these battles aren't to the death. They are to do what is right and they are fought daily.

You don't have to fall on your own sword. The battle is less important than following God. The greatest weapon a Christian has is faith. What role does faith have as you face the challenges the present themselves daily?

A Kitchen Remodeled

2010-09-29T19:57:00.009-05:00

Notice the counter tops...they arrived...we are happy. We have a mess to clean up and lots of furniture to arrange but the primary work is all done now. Once we put it all back together we will have a totally completed project.

We have a kitchen table now and a new light. We can eat in our dining room. Another reason for happiness.

The range, microwave hood, dishwasher, and sink have joined the counter tops as the amazing new additions to this side of the kitchen. The best part...they all work. We can cook again.

This is Emily's closet. She has taken great joy in starting to fill it. Now it has a light and shelves. More cleaning and arranging is needed, but it is coming together. We love the tile.

Hello fully functional master bathroom. We missed you. The walls have been fixed, the mirror added, and the hardware has been put on the vanity.

This is the shower curtain Emily has chosen. Notice the towels. The bathtub/shower can be used again.

It has been a long road. We began demo on the hallway bathroom in May. We still have more painting, trim/baseboard work, and new carpet to do (I should say "like" to do when we can afford it) in other parts of the house...but it is nice to have all the major projects done. Our house feels new and we are loving it.

Devotional – David Fights

2010-09-29T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 8 – Day 3 of The Story of a King

Read 1 Samuel 30:1-30

David to the Rescue

Since David is not allowed to fight with the Philistine army he returns home. Waiting for him is tragedy. His village has been attacked and burned and all of the wives and children in that village had been taken away. This included David's own family. His army wept.

David seeks God and God responds. He goes after those who captured his family. God provides him an Egyptian guide and David soon overtakes the attackers. He wins the battle and reclaims every person who was taken. He is also rewarded with a great deal of wealth taken from those who attacked his family. God used David to rescue the women and children that had been taken.

Now a problem comes up. A part of David's army had stayed behind. The part of the army that fought the battle wanted all the rewards. David steps in and brings fairness. Everyone in his army is treated the same. David saw all the people that followed him as valuable. He also used this wealth to reach out to his friends who had helped him while he was on the run from Saul. David is loyal to his friends.

Thoughts and Questions

David's dismissal led to the salvation of many families. God had a plan.

David demonstrates fairness and loyalty to his people. A good leader recognizes the importance of those around him/her.

God used David as a rescuer…perhaps as an answer to prayer. David's seeking God led to rescue.

Be a Rescuer

Where others saw pain and destruction David saw a chance to do good. While others were mourning and weeping, David was seeking God's direction. David's faith allowed him to rescue his people. God was at work through this entire event.

Have you ever been a rescuer? Have you ever had a moment when you were in the right place at the right time with just the right action or word to say? Have you ever followed a prompting from God only to find yourself in the right place at the right time? God rescues, and sometimes we get to help. How can you be a rescuer today?

Devotional – David is Rejected

2010-09-28T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 8 – Day 2 of The Story of a King

Read 1 Samuel 29:1-11

David's Problem

That song continued to follow David around "Saul has killed his thousands and David his tens of thousands". This legacy never really helped David much. It was this song that set Saul against David. This song was used as a mockery of David. Now this song is separating David from the people who took him in.

The Philistine army was gathering to attack Israel and David was gathering with them. This was a problem. David would have to attack his own people. This was something David had managed to avoid to this point. If he tried to stay out of the battle he would be in major trouble with the Philistines. If he joined the battle he would have to kill Israelites…the people God anointed him to be king over. Fortunately God was with David and had a plan.

That song that had caused David so much trouble made people in the Philistine army unsure of David. They dismissed him and sent him away. David did not lose face and he did not attack an Israelite. David was able to keep his honor. David was true to God and trusted God. Because of this God solved his problem without David having to do much at all. Saul was not true to God and did not trust God. Saul's problem would lead to his death. Quite the contrast isn't it?

Thoughts and Questions

Look back at the other times when David's song is mentioned. How often does it result in good thing happening for David?

God operates as savior for David.

The Philistines choice to dismiss David helped David develop into the king of Israel who would defeat the Philistines once and for all.

Trusting God leads to good. God is the protector.

Rock and a Hard Place

Have you ever felt stuck between a rock and a hard place? Have you ever watched all of your carefully chosen decisions backfire on you from multiple sides? David would identify you. He always tried to do what was right as best as he could, yet he found himself in exile and forced to potentially kill his own people. We don't always see the hand of God at work…that's why we have faith.

God delivered David from David's dilemma. David hardly recognized that he was in a dilemma. I wonder how often God saves us without us ever really noticing…

Devotional – Saul Turns Away

2010-09-27T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 8 – Day 1 of The Story of a King

Read 1 Samuel 28:3-25

God Doesn't Answer

Saul had removed all mediums or those who spoke for other gods from Israel some time ago. Of course some remained, but they were in hiding. Now Saul is faced with the largest Philistine army he has faced yet and is afraid. He turns to God but God does not answer him so Saul seeks out a medium. When God doesn't do as Saul desires, Saul finds someone who will.

So Saul uses deception to track down a medium and had her call up the spirit of the now deceased Samuel. In the conversation between Saul and Samuel, Samuel makes it clear that Saul has become an enemy of God and that he (and his sons) will not survive the coming battle. Saul has come full circle. He was God's strong anointed king. Now he has made himself God's enemy and there is no strength of character or person remaining in him.

Saul was devastated by this news. It is interesting how seriously he takes Samuel's words when he consults a medium when he virtually ignored Samuel's words when Samuel was alive to give them. Saul has to be convinced to eat. His servants help him with basic choices. Saul without God has become lost, lonely, and weak.

Thoughts and Questions

Why did Saul so quickly give up on God answering him?

Saul seems to give more weight to what he experiences through a medium then what a prophet of God told him directly.

Saul's fear has overcome Saul's faith. His journey toward destruction through sin has reached a point of no return. Saul becomes a sad figure.

Turning Away

How quickly do we turn away from God? When He doesn't give us the answer we think we want or need in the time we want to hear it we are quick to do our own thing or seek other options. Faith requires trust and trust waits on the Lord. Saul's lack of faith in God led directly to his downward spiral into sin. Without faith we are lost and headed towards destruction.

How's your faith? Have you ever turned away from God? Has fear ever overcome your faith? Perhaps today would be a good day to confess such moments and wait on the Lord.

Week 8 Readings

2010-09-26T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 8

The Final Battle of Saul

Readings

Day 1: Read 1 Samuel 28:3-25
Day 2: Read 1 Samuel 29:1-11
Day 3: Read 1 Samuel 30:1-30
Day 4: Read 1 Samuel 31:1-13
Day 5: Read 2 Samuel 1:1-27
Over the week read I Samuel 28:3 – 2 Samuel 1:27

Questions and Thoughts to Consider

Day 1: Saul Turns to Other gods (1 Samuel 28:3-25).

Why do you think Saul could get nothing from God?
This battle against the Philistines is also against God. Saul cannot win. His evil has caught up with him.

Day 2: David is Rejected by the Philistines (1 Samuel 29:1-11).

What might have happened if David went into battle against Israel, Saul, and Jonathan?
God protected David from this battle as He protected David throughout his life. God is a protector.

Day 3: David Fights (1 Samuel 30:1-30).

David returns to his lands and finds them attacked. David's own wives were taken. David now has a fight of his own.
David consults God and God answers. David is the opposite of Saul.
How does David's handling of this battle demonstrate his devotion and dedication to the Lord?

Day 4: Saul and Jonathan's Death (1 Samuel 31:1-13).

How did Saul's life end?
The valiant men of Jabesh-gilead rescued and properly mourned Saul and his sons. God did not allow this dishonored king to be disgraced by the Philistines.

Day 5: David Mourns (2 Samuel 1:1-27).

How does David's song of mourning describe his feelings for Saul and Jonathan? David was never Saul's enemy. David loved his anointed king.

Devotional – David in Exile

2010-09-24T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 7 – Day 5 of The Story of a King

Read 1 Samuel 26:1 – 28:2

David Chooses to Leave Israel

Once again David has a chance to eliminate Saul. He finds Saul and Saul's commanders sleeping and vulnerable. Once again David spares Saul's life. A confrontation follows as David makes Saul aware that he owed his life to David. David gives Saul a chance to accuse him of crimes, but Saul cannot do that. David is innocent. Saul's words clear David's reputation and Saul admits his foolishness. Once again they part with the conflict supposedly over.

Saul doesn't stay true to his word…again. David recognizes that this continued cat and mouse game will continue until one of them is dead. So he chooses to leave Israel and go to Gath. This is not a choice he wants to make, but he does it to protect himself, to protect Saul, and to protect the people from a civil war. David took the hard path of exile rather than the easy path of killing Saul.

In Gath, the leaders give David space and ask him to attack Israel. David does not do this. Instead he attacks other nations. David remained true to his people even in exile. But a war is coming and David will have another choice to make. If he fights alongside the Philistine army he will end up fighting his own people. If he rejects the Philistines he will be alone or once again at odds with Saul. David has a dilemma forming that only God and fix.

Thoughts and Questions

David will not kill the anointed king. David's respect for God and God's ways always trumps his own desires and goals.

Saul cannot be trusted. He breaks his word more and more. The once mighty king has become a fool without the guidance of the Lord.

David is true to a king and a people who have not been true to him. In this he demonstrates the heart of God.

Exile over Sin

How many of us could or would stop ourselves from destroying an enemy if the chance presented itself? Most of us would consider it justice. David saw Saul through God's eyes. David loved his enemy and spared his life. Once again David's connection to God is proven true while Saul becomes more and more wicked and untrustworthy.

Sometimes choosing not to fight has greater wisdom then fighting. Walking away can take more courage than throwing a punch. Doing what is right is difficult and sometimes painful. David chose exile. He walked away. He trusted God to deal with Saul in God's way. How many of us would have that same faith and courage?

Devotional – David and Abigail

2010-09-23T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 7 – Day 4 of The Story of a King

Read 1 Samuel 25:1-44

A Strong Woman

There was a rich man named Nabal who had many sheep. He raised these sheep near the place where David and his men were staying. David took it upon himself to protect Nabal's shepherds from danger and thus assist in the raising of the sheep. When the time came to shear the sheep David sent some men to Nabal politely reminding Nabal of David's protection and asking to whatever provisions that Nabal deemed appropriate. Nabal sent David's people away with great insult and no provisions.

The men returned to David and told him what happened. David was angry and had his men prepare for a fight. He set out to destroy Nabal. Abigail was Nabal's wife and when she heard what her foolish husband had done she set out to correct it. She gathered provisions and met David as he was coming to kill Nabal and all his servants.

Abigail is wise. She took responsibility for the insult to protect her household and even her foolish husband. She sought to make things right with David and show him the proper honor. She also sought to turn David from this destructive path he was one for his own good. David hears her argument and responds. He praises God for Abigail's wisdom and turns aside from his destructive path. Abigail returns home to find Nabal drunk and happy. The next day when Abigail tells Nabal what happened Nabal drops dead. David pursued Abigail and she became his wife.

Thoughts and Questions

Nabal and Abigail are opposites. Nabal is as foolish as Abigail is wise. She took responsibility and did what need to be done to protect the people she cared about. In her David saw his own heart.

David nearly took the path of Saul. An insult from a fool nearly caused him to kill innocents in the name of justice.

David listened to Abigail and actually heard her wisdom. David allowed his heart to be truly changed. He praised God for Abigail's words.

The Lord ended Nabal's life. The Lord brought justice and provided David with a wise and capable wife.

Listening to Wisdom

Have you ever allowed the words or actions of a foolish person push you into doing something you regretted? Have you ever had someone take the good you have done and respond in an evil way? What reaction did you have? Too often we take vengeance and justice into our own hands. We allow a fool or an evildoer (gossiper, abuser, etc) to bring us down to their level. If we are not careful we will begin to act wrongly and foolishly.

Let us remember today that God is the God of justice. Let us trust Him to deal with the foolish and the evildoer. Let us keep ourselves pure and following the Lord rather than always responding to the foolish. If you have ever repaid evil with evil spend some time thinking about what that has done to you. Return to the Lord and trust Him.

Devotional – David Spares Saul’s Life

2010-09-22T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 7 – Day 3 of The Story of a King

Read 1 Samuel 23:15 – 24:22

Opportunity in a Cave

Saul chases David all over the land. David narrowly escapes from him. Then one day while David was hiding in a cave Saul shows up to use the bathroom in that same cave. Saul is completely unaware of David's presence. David could have killed Saul then and there and the chase would be over and done with. Instead David cuts off a piece of Saul's robe.

David is filled with regret. Despite all that Saul had done to him and Saul's continued efforts to kill him, David remains loyal to the king. In an act of true courage David confronts Saul. He bows before Saul and offers an argument for his innocence. David proved his loyalty through his actions. He honored God, his vow to Jonathan, Saul, and himself by protecting Saul's life rather than ending it. David cares about the man who sought to kill him.

Saul recognizes that he owes David his life. He is filled with sorrow and weeps when he sees the righteousness of David. Saul knew that if the situation had been reversed David would be dead by Saul's own hand. Saul acknowledges David as the future king and asks for David's protection. What a change! Unfortunately Saul cannot be trusted and the two part ways.

Thoughts and Questions

What does it say about David that he would protect Saul rather than kill him?

Why was David upset at what he had done to Saul?

David is an innocent who is being unjustly attacked yet he does not fight back. This is a clear example of "turning the other cheek".

Even Saul recognized the Lord in David. Wickedness brings more wickedness while goodness brings goodness.

Wicked or Righteous?

Have you ever been unjustly attacked by another who sought to harm you? How did you respond?

Typically when someone comes after us they become our enemies and we go after them in kind. David did not do this. He demonstrated love for his enemy, loyalty to his beliefs, and integrity. David lived righteously in the face of wickedness.

When we are attacked, let us not sink to the level of our attacker. Instead let us be like David and hold ourselves to a higher standard based on God. Then we will know the power of a righteous life.

Devotional – David Follows the Lord

2010-09-21T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 7 – Day 2 of The Story of a King

Read 1 Samuel 23:1-14

Yes Lord?

David has a problem. He has a growing number of followers (600 now) and feels a responsibility to Israel. So when he hears that Keilah is under attack he feels compelled to help them. However, helping them will attract King Saul's attention and put everyone in danger. When faced with a problem David turns to the Lord of guidance. The Lord says to go to Keilah and so David goes. He saves the town from the Philistines. Notice that King Saul was nowhere to be found.

Saving Keilah did attract the attention of Saul. Saul believes he has David cornered and raises and army to lay siege to the town. King Saul is now willing to attack and destroy the city David has just defended. Saul cares little for his own people.

David again turns to the Lord for guidance. The Lord informs David of Saul's intent and that the people of Keilah would turn David over to Saul rather than be destroyed. David looks around and considers what Saul would do to the people he saved and decides to flee.

Thoughts and Questions

David protected the people of Keilah from the Philistines and from King Saul.

David was motivated by care for the people around him.

David sought after and followed God's guidance at every turn. Saul paid no attention to the Lord.

David was true to God, himself, and his responsibilities even when he was in a difficult position.

Doing Right

David did not let his problem keep him from doing right. He acted as the hero of the people even as the King of the people sought his death. Instead of complaining to God about his situation David sought God and followed His guidance. He was able to do right and overcome because of it.

Have you ever let a problem define you and keep you from doing what is right? How could seeking the Lord change or clarify your current situation in life?

Devotional – The Priests of Nob

2010-09-20T08:00:00.000-05:00

Week 7 – Day 1 of The Story of a King

Read 1 Samuel 21:1 – 22:23

David on the Run

David is cut off from support. He is running away from King Saul who wants to kill him. He runs to the priests. His presence is unusual and the head priest sees that something is wrong. He asks David about it and David feeds him a finely crafted lie. He claims to be on a top secret mission for King Saul. He uses this lie to get food and a weapon…Goliath's sword. From there David runs to Gath where he fears for his life. David again deceives as he acts like a madman so that they will not harm him. David runs again and gathers his family to him. Others come as well and David ends up with a small army of 400 who stand with him.

The priests were betrayed by Doeg who saw David with them. Saul is casting blame on the people for not telling him where to find David. He accuses the people of conspiring against him. Saul's downward spiral continues. Saul calls all the priests of Nob before him to accuse them of conspiring against him. They defend themselves. They saw David as a loyal part of Saul's family and did not know that he fled. Saul rejects this truth and orders them all killed. No Israelite will do it so Doeg does it. He kills 85 priests as well as their families and livestock.

One priest survives and runs to David. David takes responsibility for this tragedy and offers his protection. David's deceit placed those priests in danger and David was willing to admit his part and take responsibility. Saul had no such motivation. Saul kills as David protects.

Thoughts and Questions

David used deceit when he was put in a difficult spot. People faced danger because of it. Deceit is dangerous.

David seeks to protect while Saul seeks to destroy.

David takes responsibility while Saul dishonors himself.

Responsibility

Why did David deceive? He did it to protect himself and to protect the priests. He failed. Deceit does not produce quality results. However, Saul does not deceive…he kills. Saul knew what he wanted and went after it without a care for anyone else. This story compares Saul to David. David takes responsibility for his actions while Saul shows no remorse. God remains with David while Saul operates without the Lord's guidance and protection.

How willing are each of us to take responsibility for our actions? How far are we willing to go to achieve our desired ends? Caring for the life of another will lead us down a fruitful path that shows others the heart of God. What do your actions tell others about the care you have for them? Are you a protector or a destroyer?

Waiting for Counter Tops

2010-09-19T13:04:00.010-05:00

We only had workmen here on Monday and Tuesday. They put up the trim and baseboards and got all the cardboard and trash out. The result is beautiful!
Now we are waiting on the counter tops (they have been ordered) and the electrician to finish the project (he is on vacation this past week).

I painted the front door and the back door this blue color. I realized it turned out much closer to Colt's blue than I intended.
The bathroom is functional now. (It is hard to take pictures in there).